Well simple I have to ask, after being dumped a few times and going through a 15 year, what I thought was a marriage.
2007-02-22 13:42:20 · 19 answers · asked by Jim D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure there's lots of us. I hope things get better for you - good luck!
2007-02-22 13:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What does "are there any real women" have to do with you being dumped an dhaving a bad marriage?
Being a "real woman" doesn't make one a good person...it just means she's a woman. Not knowing you or the people who ended relationships with you, we can't really make a judgement on whether or not what happened was justified.
Don't get down on all women because you've had some experiences you didn't care for though...we all go through that. Learn the lessons and look forward to more good times.
2007-02-22 13:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I lead a Bible study group of young men - ages 18ish to 30ish. Mostly unmarried - topics often turn to dating, courtship, marriage. Here's what I tell them.
"Finding" a "good woman" isn't the hard part. Nor is it the part that you as an individual have much control over. The hard part, and the part that you control is this - Make of yourself the kind of man that a good woman would be a fool to turn away from.
Run as hard as you can for Jesus. Look to the left, look to the right. You may chose to court (not "date") any woman who attracts you, who is keeping up with you. I say don't "date", because the real purpose of courtship is to find out if that woman would be good to be yoked with - married to. "Dating" is about the last way you can actually "get to know" someone - the guy shaves, wears collogne, shines his shoes, vacuums the car, holds the door for the girl, and refrains from picking his nose for an entire evening - WHAT A LIE!!! And she's no better - you take her to a good steak house and she daitily orders a salad.
There are real women out there - to get one requires the right bait. Be a real man.
2007-02-22 14:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by teran_realtor 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
, Maybe you should ask is there any real people left on earth .
Things aren't like they use to be .Take a good look around woman sleeping with woman men sleeping with men, wife's husbands cheating and wanting sympathy for it . Everyone is going to tell you :Yes there is you will fined a good woman someday; or; if God willing ; and some which is a good one in here that everyone sez ; Seek counseling ; HA HAA Stop looking the world is going to hell in a hand basket you just opened your eyes and said what the hell happened
2007-02-22 14:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are Hon. Just don't look so hard and you will find her when you least expect it. Change your routine some. Go to a different grocery store. Or different laundry mat or church, restaurant, movie theater etc. Get a different cologne, hairstyle, dress a little different. Try new things.... Have fun! If you keep doing what you always do you will keep getting what you always get! Good luck! *smile*
2007-02-22 14:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Diana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there are.. I know what you are saying because my mother said the same thing about men on this earth... she is a very pretty and sweet person and it took her forever to find a companion after her divorce. The funny thing is that is will happen when you least expect it. Good luck and keep your eyes open!
2007-02-22 13:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All REAL women flew to Mars, Hurry jump on a space ship after them!
2007-02-22 14:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of great women around. I think your real question should be why are you constantly attracting (or going after) the wrong type?
2007-02-22 13:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you mean. I been with my b/f 14 yrs and we have an honest loving relationship still. I knew what I was looking for. He's kind, brave,strong,and smart. I was not looking for money or someone to take care of me. I wanted someone who would make me feel safe on a dark night not because he was one of the bad boys, but because he was a Texas Ranger in his heart.
If someone like me is what your looking for I have a friend and she is just like me......are you just like my man?
2007-02-22 13:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well honey, it depends on what you consider a real woman i guess.
i am as about as real as they come. i have good days and bad days.
i do the best i can for people and i'm loyal to a fault.
but some days i'm a b*tch just cause i feel like it.
keepin' it real in WV
2007-02-22 13:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were in a 15 year relationship without marriage, and you never asked her, she probably got sick of waiting.
2007-02-22 13:45:50 · answer #11 · answered by Hodie 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋