im married but i fell in love with married man and he also love me but we both love our partners
2007-02-22 13:18:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you gotta do what you gotta do if the dick is good get all you can i love my husband but when he is gone i have needs
2007-02-22 13:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Babe 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You say you love your husband but yet you fell in love
with a married man and had intemacy. Look at yourself
and see and hear what you are saying, then you will
discover it makes no sense. Married people that love each
other do not fall in love with another person that is marr-
ied and has sex becasue then you disrespect your marr-
ied partner and shame the marriage on both sides. Be
a true woman and either love your man like you say you
do or leave him and be with the other as you cannot have
it both ways. If you try to have it both ways you will be
the one in the end with nothing, so what is it exactly that
you want in life, just think about it.
2007-02-22 13:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband, then why would you choose to have sex with other men for? I can only guess that you don't truly love your husband, but instead, like him for his money, looks, his snazzy car...
You must know that you are hurting your current husband, and you cannot love both these men simultaneously without creating disasters for both your husband and your lover's wife. YOU MUST DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO CONTINUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND... because you have to give up one or the other. Is the problem because your husband has sexual dysfunction dfficulties or something like that? Because there is Viagra for that nowadays... as they say in the commericials, talk to your family doctor about it!!!
I also think it is VERY selfish of you to carry on this affair with a married man. Have you EVER thought about how difficult a position this man's wife must be in? She is being cheated on, and you are the woman who is making it happen. STOP IT!!! She doesn't deserve this betrayal.
Also, if you think for a SECOND that this married man actually loves you for you, then you are wrong. HE LOVES YOU FOR GIVING HIM SEX, WHICH = (EQUALS) ORGASMS AND EXCITEMENT IN HIS PROBABLY OTHERWISE-BORING LIFE, AND IF YOU WERE MARRIED TO HIM THIS LOSER WOULD BE CHEATING ON YOU TOO!!! How can you not feel sorry for his poor wife?!!!!
If I were you, I'd cut it out with this married man, and start opening up and working on your marriage instead of seeking ways to run away from it, hurting other people in the process. If there is an underlying problem behind all your cheating, try to fix it... and you'll be glad you did.
2007-02-22 13:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by -- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not have both. Sooner or later his wife and your husband will find out about your unfaithfulness. There is no secret thing hidden under the sun.
Everything will be exposed. And when that day comes, you will be accountable for all of your actions.
Whatsoever you reap you will sow. if you sow iniquity, then shame and guilt shall be your reward. God will exposed the secret sins both of you have done.
Consider this, what profit will you get even if you gain the whole world but lose YOUR OWN SOUL IN HELL. Why trade your family for a short time pleasure.? It is not worth it. God will reward everything that you do, be it evil or good.
GO AND SIN NO MORE.
2007-02-22 13:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah blah blah. Ask yourself how you would feel if your husband were doing the same thing.
Romance, which is what you are feeling, is not the same as love.
Wash someone's underwear, that's love. Have them hold your hair while you vomit with a stomach virus, that's love.
Sex while lying to your spouses is not love.
I really loathe when people go out looking for a rush, which is all an affair is. Go bungee jumping and be faithful to your family.
2007-02-22 13:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love your husband. If you love him why are you cheating on him in the first place. Then you do not love him.
Please take your a moment and think how it will impact your husband. Either you end your affair or end your marriage to be with your lover. There is no 2 ways street here.
2007-02-22 13:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by solitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't understand what is love. If you said you love yr husband then why DO U Betray Him??? If the other guy also love his wife he should not be with another woman!!! If your husband did the same thing how would you feel? So, do think before you do anything.
2007-02-22 13:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between love and lust. You don't love anyone, at least not yet, anyway.
If you love someone, you don't cheat on them. Period.
If you lust, and you choose not to take responsibility for your actions. Then you are just morally bankrupt. Learn the difference, because it is disrespectful. And you are going to be hurting a lot of people by both your actions.
2007-02-22 19:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not really love your husband since you are cheating on him with this other man who is also married. How can you do this to someone that you supposedly love? You do not really love either one of them for that matter and you really do not even know what true love is. You need counseling and since you cannot stay true to your spouse you need to let him go and let him find someone someday who will love him someday who will stay true to him and not cheat on him the way that you do. If you really care for your husband at all you will need to either quite cheating on him or let the guy go. JMHO. Go to http://www.drphil.com with this and email him and see what he has to say about this to you.
2007-02-22 13:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do your husband a favor and leave. When he finds out, and he will, you will have hurt him deeply. You say you love him... if you loved him you wouldn't have an affair! Cheaters are losers, think about him for once - get out of this marriage and let him get on with his life!
2007-02-22 13:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have sex with someone else obviously you do not love your husband. You would not dishonor and disrespect your marriage if you love your husband.
2007-02-22 13:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋