Are black woman running the black man to the white woman and to other races of women.?

Question

Do anyone else believe that the black woman drive the black man into other women's arms, because of their bad attitudes.

Answer 1

I think it takes two to tango, and black men need to stop playing the blame game. Black men need to take responsibility. And I can imagine some black women are tired of being burnt in relationships, so maybe they are more demanding than others.

But that ultimately comes down to the man, (of any race for that matter,) and if he is unwilling to carry his weight and do his part, then he has no right to complain if his woman is hard on him.

Black women as "mean" or "bossy" is just another stupid stereotype. I am around many black girls and women at college and they don't reflect the stereotype at all.

Yes there are both mean white and black women out there, but to say that the majority of women with bad attitudes are black women is a load of crap.

As a white guy, I have seen more white women who are total bitches, who think theirs doesn't stink. Many times they are the ones with no manners and the bad attitudes.

I have always felt that black women have it the hardest, because they face a double prejudice of first, being women, and second, who are black, and that is unacceptable.

Black women should be cherished, not knocked on. Interracial dating is fine. But it can't be used as a weapon to promote the negative stereotypes of black women.

I think that black women are stronger now in 2007, after their established presence in the workplace, college, and politics. Their new strength and idependence makes some insecure men feel threatened, so they need to knock on them to feel superior.

Answer 2

Now if you had asked if some black women drive away some black men with their attitudes, which are individual behavious/qualities, I would understand you better. But you have gone as far as insulting black women generally, therefore I must say this: you must be a really stupid and small-minded person, and so are everyone else who share the same view about black women. Any woman and man of any race can have an attitude. Its wrong to stereotype people, like saying white women sleep around a lot or that asian women marry white men so they can gold-dig. Personally, my belief is that all black women dont drive black men away, as black women dont own black men, and everyone is free to date who they want, regardless of colour. Lets not leave out black women like myself who date white men, or for some, men of other races. Why would we give a damn who black men date, when we are busy getting involved with white and nonblack men? Think about that, all you ignorant fools with minds as useless as you totally sound! Peace.

Answer 3

It's a cultural stigma, a lot of Black women act like that because they think that's the only way to fit into society, a bad misconception. And yes having a bad attitude all the time would drive ANY man away.

And Black women arent the only ones with attitude problems, a lot of women take pride in being b***chy.

Answer 4

I don't think its a question about one running from the other but I do thinks its a question of finding love. If TONEESHA and SHUMLEEFa always treated tyrone like he was not good enough when he grows up and gets a good job he will find love where love finds him regardless of what color she maybe. Why are you under the impression that only black women can go out black men though? I don`t understand that.

Answer 5

I'm a black woman and I don't think that's the problem. I think some of these black men have preferences, and actually see these white women as a woman. I don't think it has anything to do with the color. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe people love another person for who they are rather than what the color of their skin is?

Answer 6

I believe that you paint the world with too broad of a brush. I also believe that with the generalizations in your questions, you sound more like a white male in a trailer park then a Black Woman anywhere..

Answer 7

Here we go again with the same old ignorant question. Black women have no influence over anything that black men do, just as black men have no influence over what we do. These are not "our" men. Black men can date/marry/whatever anyone they chose, as can black women.

And what exactly are black women's "bad attitudes"? Are you referring to the same old tired media stereotype of the ignorant, foulmouthed welfare queen? Do you really believe that all black women are like that? You seem to take such joy in promoting that stereotype. Don't lay your own self-hatred on the rest of us.

Answer 8

Who would want to live with some body who has a bad attitude everyday, somebody that looks at you as income and not for love, somebody who doesnt care about buying a house and improving their credit, but they make sure to have their nails done and hair pressed. When black women start getting there priorities in order like other women of different races things will change. I was married to a black woman from the bronx for 6 years.

Answer 9

mia you need to shut the hell up and stop acting like you are black. black women just don't get a bad attitude for no reason. someone has to piss them off. its not that they have a bad attitude, its just that they know how to get one when they have to.

Answer 10

Everyone has the right to make thier own choices. If black men want to blame black women, then they are not all the confident in their choices..Anyway, black men do not belong to black women. Its a strange question.