These things are not my bussiness and they are not affecting me personally; but everytime I hear a girl cheat on their boyfriends I get mad depress.
I don't even have a girlfriend, they are not betraying me, they are betraying others, it shouldn't affect me, but it does.
How I get away from those feelings?
2007-02-22 12:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You care. That's so nice. Just try not to get so mad. It's ok to get upset, not mad. By getting UPSET you are just showing that you are a caring person. You must have a strong set of morals because you can't stand people betraying others. Getting away from the feelings may not be the best way to go, maybe you should just try to tone them down. Best Wishes!!
2007-02-22 13:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are expecting other people to live by your own expectations, morals, values, and beliefs. Each person is different, although they may share similarities. Once you can understand that they are not living your life, you will be able to separate your feelings.
Another reason might be that perhaps you desire a girlfriend, and are scared to get into a relationship because you are seeing some examples of what you would consider to be a bad choice in partners.
You will never know until you experience it for yourself.
Let up on the control factor and enjoy yourself. Try not to be "perfect" or expect others to be the same.
2007-02-22 21:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is because you are a nice guy and treat your girlfriends right. You expect everyone to have that same value that you so. And by the fact that you do not have a girlfriend right now, you see what these girls take for granted. You just have to realize that not everyone has the same feelings that you do, but when you find that special someone she will be one lucky girl because you will respect her and she will know that she can trust you
2007-02-22 21:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get mad but my girlfriend just cheated on me and I've move on. That how you get away from thoes feelings
2007-02-22 21:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your a control freak. you might get lucky and grow out of it but there is no promises. some people never grow out of it and are cursed with it forever. i dont mean to piss on your parade but the truth hurts.
2007-02-22 20:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by azehriad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have been chaeted on or are close to peoplr who have been cheated on and it was hurt by it. It just mat be residual feelings.
2007-02-22 21:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your responsibility to measure, these women you're discussing, level of devotion. Its your responsibility to not choose such women for yourself.
2007-02-22 21:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋