he is clean but should we still use protection?
2007-02-22 12:38:55 · 12 answers · asked by tony21_and_steve17 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hes my first boyfriend.but i dont think i am that naive..lol
2007-02-22 12:42:52 · update #1
of course hes had 2 boyfriends before me.unlike most humans he is not a cheater.and he never will be.
2007-02-22 12:48:17 · update #2
hey ivan dragon go suck a lemon,noone asked you to answer did they?if you want 2 stupid points so badly find something worth your time.and stop wasting mine jerk.
2007-02-22 12:53:54 · update #3
Khamirul Mataree then marry him and get him the heck out of our sight before i rip his hair off.
2007-02-23 03:31:33 · update #4
Well, i would suggest that you both get tested first. If that comes back ok and you are both committed then sure, why not.
Ignore these people who think you will get HIV, if you are both "clean" commited into a relationship I can see no problem.
2007-02-22 18:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by benn26k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a difficult choice, and one that many gay couples have. The blanket answer "Yes, you should always use protection" doesn't feel appropriate in a monogamous HIV-negative gay couple.
BUT
There is still the risk that someone will stray and play outside the relationship. I thought probably pretty much the same as you: my spouse and I were monogamous, both HIV negative, and neither of us would cheat, so we didn't use protection. After 10 years together we broke up, and I found out after he left that he did indeed cheat. Luckily I am still negative (and he can drop dead for all I care). But I consider myself extremely fortunate to have come through that clean.
The number of past sex partners shouldn't enter into your decision if you both have a clean bill of health. But you can never be certain that some drunken night someone won't slip up and have that one encounter that transmits HIV.
The choice is yours.
2007-02-22 12:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by dougeebear 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes! You should always. And him too with the rest of you all. Its for full protection from any disease. Take a good health care, ok.
2007-02-22 13:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel unsure what might happen then yes but I don't think you have to worry about using protection. Good luck! ^____^ !
2007-02-23 08:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by shadowdemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should use protection. u can never be to cautious and u dont know if u have something that hasnt been diagnosed. or maybe tony has something that hasnt been diagnosed.
ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 13:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that he had 2 boyfriends before you?
He is clean. Do you mean he has had at least two blood tests and that he is seronegative, tested negative for hepatitis B & C, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc?
If so, and you are sure you are in a relationship just with him, sure why not have unprotected sex?
2007-02-22 12:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You should always use protection irrespective if they have a BF or GF.
2007-02-22 14:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should continue to use protection.
Remember when you get intimate with him you are "doing it with all the other guys he has done it with".
The same, of course, goes for you as well.
2007-02-22 12:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
ah yes
2007-02-22 12:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by will s 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i would let him turn hisown self own.
2007-02-22 12:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋