My ex dumped me & married someone else last year.He knows I still love him. He still has feelings for me too. He flirts, & asks me to bring him lunch while he's at work. I know its wrong but a part of me still misses his company.He tries to make me jealous by saying certain things about his wife.While I was talking to him @ his job another guy who works next door came in & was flirting w/me & said he thought I was very sexy & asked me for my number in front of him.I gave it to him.My ex flipped out & told me to turn around & talk to him & keep my mouth closed.After the guy walked out he started ranting that if I had contact with another man he doesnt want to hear it or see it & that he would have nothing else to do with me...Im thinking why?If he chose to marry someone else, why even get so upset about it? I could see getting a little jealous, but he blew up in front of his co-workers & customers.Is it an ego thing or what.I cant tell his wife because she doesnt live in the U.S.
2007-02-22 12:28:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesn't own you and he doesn't respect you or his wife. I would tell him to enjoy his life and find a life of my own with a love of my own.
2007-02-22 12:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not own you at all and there is a reason he is your ex. Stop all communication with him and move on with your life without him in it. He is not good for you and never will be. You need to find a way to tell his wife about this as well. He seems very selfish and like he wants the both of you. Basically he wants to have his cake and eat it too if you know what i mean. You do not have to keep your mouth shut and he is not your boss and has no control over you. Lose the guy and move on with your life and you will be much better for it. It is definitley an ego thing with him!
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2007-02-22 20:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just nuts, aren't you. Crazy as a loon..you are messing around with someone else's husband, I don't care how you choose to look at it. Your ex is a control freak and still has you under his thumb...congratulations for being the dumbest woman on the block, maybe in the city.
2007-02-22 20:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is setting you up to be his little friend with benefits. You should cut off your communication with him as you are allowing it. He is no longer available and you need to just let go before you get into a situation that will make you miserable and ruin other peoples lives.
2007-02-22 20:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not think it he knows it. You are still emotionally attached. You need to get over it. Stop taking him lunch. His wife does not live here so he will just keep busy with you? You need to move on from this loser. Find her address and tell her.
2007-02-22 20:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by bobblehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he knows you still have feelings for him, and by the sound of it, he still likes you. He is taking advantage of you. It would make me feel a lot better if you didn't let him do that again, ok?
2007-02-22 20:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Gennilove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im going to tell you that your ex don't give a dam about you or he wouldn't of got married to someone esle you don't need him he's got a wife and you got rights to date other single men forget ex he's got someone
2007-02-26 19:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about that jerk! Get a life yourself! Your prison sentance is over, enjoy your life and don't look back at that looser!!! Good luck
2007-02-22 20:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in this other woman's shoes.....what about this situation is OK?
This guy isn't worth your time and I feel very sorry for his wife.
2007-02-22 20:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey ... your ex is playing you like a fiddle. Get away from his sorry butt.
Move on... value yourself more than you are rigth now.
2007-02-23 00:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋