I dont know what to do. Today during lunch, she was sitting next to him and I didnt feel too happy. I gave a fake smile. I guess I was jealous. What should I do???
2007-02-22 12:27:55 · 17 answers · asked by Tracy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends are forever, dates come and go. Talk to your friend and agree that neither of you will go out with him.
2007-02-22 12:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person. Step away from the situation. You like the guy, you don't love him. Let nature work it's course. No guy is worth losing a friendship over. Never compete over a guy with ANYONE especially a friend. Not worth it.
2007-02-22 12:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be totally honest.......i have the same problem. and i hate it that he is the one who is acting super mean. but anyways........ i wouldnt get into a big fight over a guy. i mean when you think about it friends are way more inporten you know?so why would you wnt to give up a great friend for a guy you are not even close to.and guys come and go bujt friends don't just go. when they leave you are way sad. and there is way more fish in the sea. (way more guys in the world):) i mean what if your friend died tomarrow. you would be sooooo sad you wouldn't even think about that guy. you would be crying about your friend rightt? so just think about it that way ok? i hope it goes well.
God bless you.
2007-02-22 13:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a best friend who always goes after the same guys as me. Bottom line its about who HE wants to talk to. She can like him all day long, but if he isnt into her she cant get mad if he likes you. As long as he has never had sex with either of you, he is fair game.
2007-02-22 12:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last 3 answers
2007-02-22 12:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him decide who he wants and not be jealous or upset if he doesn't choose you. Boyfriends come and go. Friendships between girls can be forever.
2007-02-22 12:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a good friend you should never chose a guy over a friend, ever. I've done it and regretted it every time.
2007-02-22 12:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by ellyn r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were the same situation but me my best friend and the guy knows my feeling but my best is secret i dont know what to do
2007-02-22 12:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously have a menage a trois and let him decide which of you to throw to the gutter !
2007-02-22 12:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dint let a guy get in the middle of a good friendship,there will be many guys, but sometimes you only get one best friend, let her have him and walk away, you'll be better off.good luck
2007-02-22 12:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by debbie d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋