any suggestions..
or should i not even tell her??
2007-02-22 12:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by grrr<3 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well if you've heard your parents comment on stuff like that and they are ok w/ it, tell them otherwise do not. I'm still exploring so meanwhile they will know nothing of the matter, plus if I ever went bi I don't think i'll tell them untill i'm 100% independent, also I've heard them make comments that they are not ok with bi or gay stuff even though they also said that if someone of the familly was like that they would still love them 100% and idk about that they don't seem completly comfortable.
But yeah If you are not ready to tell them don't.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 13:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i go via an similar element with my moms and dads in effortless words i'm an entire blown les and the following is what I plan to do: I intend on waiting to inform my kin some thing about my orientation until eventually i locate someone particular who i have been with for atleast a year who i think i ought to spend some thing of my life with. Then i am going to come out. this type i think in the journey that they do disown me, a minimum of i am going to have someone to run and cry to who i comprehend loves me and could no longer depart me on my own. hence, regardless of if it will truly truly truly harm to no longer be seen aside of my kin, i am going to have someone to assist me look ahead to waking up interior the morning. yet do not placed your eggs in a unmarried basket, attempt to save your self surrounded by those you sense are your genuine acquaintances who gained't depart you on my own both. That way, in the journey that your mate does commit to up and depart throughout a at the same time as of favor, you'll nevertheless have others that could also help you by. wish I helped!!
2016-12-04 19:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a hard time deciding how to tell my parents and then they just asked me right to my face and I told them... but only because I was comfortable enough with myself and my family situation to tell them. If you feel comfortable just tell them or you could wait for the right time, like when they ask you or bring up something that pertains to the topic. But if you're afraid of the outcome, maybe you aren't quite ready and that's nothing to worry about, don't have to rush. I know I wasn't ready until I was 20. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 12:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was kinda forced to tell my mom that I was bi cause my pastor(*** hole) saw my myspace and it said that i was bi, in a relationship, and i have a pic of my girlfriend on it. So I was forced to tell my mom b4 he can tell her. I told her and she said she still will love me 110%. But she says I'm going through a phase and I know I'm not. I'm 17 years old I'm sure I know I'm in love with my girlfriend. She's all I think about but anyway I believe you need to really think about it 1st like is your mom homophobic, would they mind if you had a girlfriend, etc.Like I'm not trying to scare you, but you must think about these things. Like don't just yell it out in the heat of an argument. But I believe no parent should dump their child to the side just because of their sexual orientation. That's just plain out WRONG in my opinion.
HOPE I HELPED..........GOOD LUCK :]
2007-02-22 12:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up bisexuality in a casual way such as "what do you think about the law in Canada about same sex marriage?" and see what she thinks of it. If she doesn't approve of it don't tell her until you feel comfortable about it or if she catches you with some one...
But if she seems okay about it the tell her about your self if you feel confident enough. If you don't have enough confidence try tell some of your friends in the same type of way if they don't already know to boost your confidence.
The best of luck to you.
2007-02-22 13:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom found out because I left my journal open. (stupid move on my part) If you trust and don't think she'll mind, you can tell her. I would ask her for her opinon on gay/ bi /les and if she says she doesn't like them, don't tell her. Good luck
2007-02-22 12:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until your more self supportive and financially secure before you divulge your sexuality. you should be at the pinnacle in your life. For nothing else matters except your safety and security. Coming out is a life long process.
2007-02-22 12:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't mind me asking. But what is a bi???
2007-02-22 23:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by theguy932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it any of her bussiness how many hetersexuals say hey mom i'm hetro you do not have to tell her you sexual preference
2007-02-22 12:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by mrpoet03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Mom, Dad I'm bi."
"Could you pass the _______ to the bisexual?"
"You know that girl that i was telling you about?"
2007-02-22 12:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋