My mom and dad are getting a divore . my mom has moved out she bought a house of her own . my dad is going to support groups to deal with this. I am getting married in June to my man. I am having trouble when i go to see one of them . And too top it all off my man's parents live in the same area so i have to go three houses when i go see one parent. I am having a trouble keeping my self in check . I dont know what to do . I am falling apart every now and then. has anyone gone though a what i am going though? anyone can help me deal , or give me some pointer's to help deal with this.
2007-02-22 12:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by Kat J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, my parents are divorced. Holidays is alot of driving around cause we also have my husbands mother. Three houses. Thank God they all understand if we cant make it to their house, which we try very hard to do! Having little kids makes it a little harder. On holidays, we have a dinner home with one parent the night before , cause the next day (holiday) at least we now have 2 houses to go to . One for dinner and one for dessert. My parents dont talk to one another. Maybe yours will in the future which will make it easier for you. The best advice is stay out of their divorce and affairs. You'll feel better knowing its their business and you want no part. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 14:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to settle down! Why do you have to visit with all three? If you want to see your mom see her. Visit your dad another time, visit your dad and see your mom another time. If your visiting with your mans parents visit and then see yours another time. This is between your parents, don't let them make it yours and don't make it yours. Things will settle down more in time. But remember you are a seperate individual with a life of your own. If you are not careful this could become an issue between you and your future husband.
2007-02-22 21:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by bobblehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being happy for your parents...they are happier to be apart..so let them be. Would you want them to dictate to you how to live your life? Would you live a life that was not good just for them? Well, they shouldn't have to either. Get over yourself. You do not have to go see everyone when you travel...Seems to me that you are taking this much harder than anyone else is. Relax, let things flow out as they will.
2007-02-22 20:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are happy that ways, deal with it and think about their happiness. It's not necessary to visit everybody at once. You can visit just one at a time. Think about your marriage and help our parents deal with this by just listening to them. There are some things in life that everybody has to deal themselves and we can't do anything about it, so what's the use of obsessing over it.
2007-02-22 20:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOKT ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD THAT UR MOM AND DAD BROKE UP IT HAPPENS U NEVER SOME TIMES IT DONT WORK JUST MOVE ON GIRL BE HAPPY UR GETTING MARRID IM ALSO GETTING MARRID IN JUNE 11TH JUST MAKE SURE ITS WHAT U WANT AND MOVE ON EVERYTHING WILL BE OK
2007-02-22 20:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by nati l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a divore?
2007-02-22 21:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the reason for divorce?
2007-02-22 20:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋