ok this is just a WHAT IF question, im NOT planning on doing this im just wondering, if you met someone online, but you've seen them on webcam so you know they're not old guys, would you say it would be okay to meet them?
2007-02-22 12:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
please just tell me you honest opinion
2007-02-22 12:19:43 · update #1
ok im gunna be honest ive told them i'll meet them i love him but idk if i should
2007-02-22 12:21:58 · update #2
have you lost your mind?
2007-02-22 12:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if u dont mind getting chopped up in little pieces and stuffed in a car trunk. seriously, this person might seem real cool, but at the very least he might b annoying in real life. why ruin what u feel is a good friendship by meeting them? keep things the way they r, have fun chatting w them n just let them know u r not willing to go meet them or for them to come visit u. u might just save urself from a scam artist, a pervert, a violent predator or a good old fashioned stalker. its sad that these r the things we have to worry about, but its just the way things rnow. im sure if u were to ask ur mom she wouldnt think its a good idea, if u asked ur friends, they wouldnt think its a good idea n if u have to even ask this question here, u know its not a good idea. if u, for some reason, decide u have to meet this guy, do ur homework on him, maybe check if he has had any prior convictions of things that would b harmful to u. if he balks at the idea of u doing a check on him know theres something hes hiding. only meet in a highly public place during the day with a group of ur friends. have someone that will call u and that u call during the meeting n set up a code word for if things r freaking u out, like if u say "everythings peachy" ur friend knows where u r n can get the police over there and the hatchet out of his hand. and for gods sake, whatever u do dont get into his car. i really hope u dont meet this person. keep it safe.
2007-02-22 21:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by carmen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Definitely not. NO no no no no. Just because he's not old doesn't mean he's not a creepy pervert. Don't give him any info. If you're really super crazy to meet him, don't tell him where you live or your phone number. Ask him to meet you in a public place, and bring someone who could beat the crap out of someone else. Not kidding. Like another guy. If he really wants to meet you for you, then he will be OK with it. If he tries to talk you out of it, just leave it, he's a perv. But seriously, I don't think you should meet him at all. Online stuff is really sketch.
2007-02-22 23:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaii_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! No matter if they are old or not, they can still be a raper or an idiot. DO NOT GO! This girl in my town went to meet this guy she met off of MySpace and she also talked to him on a webcam. He was supposed to be 15 years old, but he was actually like...20. He kidnapped her and she still hasn't been found.
2007-02-22 22:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it.
creepy guys know how to sweet talk to girls online and sweep them off their feet and make them think they're in love or whatever.
it's easy to talk to someone online when you can just type a bunch of lies.
anyway, even if he looks young doesnt mean he's okay in the head.
2007-02-23 03:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Of course not. First of all I don't even have a webcam. But anyways they could be stalkers and maybe kill you.
2007-02-22 20:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no maybe he puts some one else its like me talking to a 30 yearold and putting my aunt on the webcam simple i havent done it but you never know
2007-02-22 20:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mariana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. it would not be safe. WHAT IF this person is into luring you to meet with him and has another person involved.. they could hurt you or rape you. Think about your safety.
2007-02-22 20:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because they could be using you for something.
2007-02-22 20:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmilicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know internet realships can be very dangerous you know.
2007-02-22 23:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋