This last weekend I lost two close friends I ride with to an avalanche while riding. I missed going with them this weekend since I had things I had to do. I am in shock and dont know what to do. I sometimes think maybe I could have helped them avoid it somehow but maybe I avoided being killed myself. I JUST DONT KNOW!!!! This is one of the hardest things of my life and I cant even leave my house right now. Please if someone has gone thru this give some advice on this. Living in Montana when you have buddies like this they are like brothers. I mean we did everything together. EVERYTHING!!!
2007-02-22 12:01:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Remember that God makes everything happen for a reason. Most reasons....we'll never know about. But there is definately a reason behind it all. After losing a classmate I came to realize that the reason can be as simple as God giving these people to us for 19 (or 25 and 26 in your case) years. That's a good enough reason to celebrate their lives.
Reasoning should also lead to learning, and to teaching others about what we have learned. Hopefully you can help educate your friends and others Montanans about the importance of only riding in areas open to snowmobile use.
Our hearts go out to you and the entire Townsend and Helena areas.
2007-02-24 19:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jay G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... I'm so sorry to hear that.
When i was in High School i lost 3 very close friends one weekend and 1 the next.
Yes it is very hard and you will shed many many tears before it's over.
The best thing to do is pick up ypur head, attend their funerals(if haven't already)and always know that they are in a better place and watching you live your life. Continue doing all the things you used to do together. The last thing they'd want is for you to put your life on hold because of their tradegy.
Good luck!!
2007-02-22 13:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by allforit420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to discover existence associates on the modern time, that manage you like relatives. yet perhaps look them up back, and re acquaint your self if in addition they decide on. yet this time, ensure you have suitable limitations. perhaps they have grown up. do no longer react to their previous stuff if any pops up, yet do a sparkling component, and keep agreeing with them. as a substitute of protection, merely flow alongside, and which will halt any joking around that hurts (finally) case in point... you havent replaced, you're nevertheless tremendous as a horse. (You respond) sure i'm tremendous as a horse, and the way are you. finally they see which you agreeing with them despite the fact that they say pulls the capability out and away. They end. i'm hoping this helps. by means of fact previous associates are nevertheless worth their salt, they did have reliable circumstances as nicely. Forgive and word of their accepted stuff.
2016-12-18 09:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to here about your loss. you may never get over losing them, but do u think that they would want you to shut down your life. i don't know if my answer is right but you just gotta go on preserve their memory and just live. there must have been a higher power keeping you from being there. it will get better for u but it is gonna take time. again sorry for your loss.
2007-02-22 12:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just go on and except it! Never forget! Sorry for your lost there.
2007-02-22 12:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋