I could walk up to any girl, no matter how big her ego is, no matter how mean she looks and immeadiately just start talking to her. But guys are scary to me...I start to get all those thoughts about "what if he does'nt like me?" "what if he laughs at me?" what if this? what if that?
*sigh* I'm in a terrible dilemma...I FINALLY found a boy my age that I think is awesome and i'm stuck. I've never had this problem. Please please please help...
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2007-02-22 11:50:36 · 19 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm bi. I'm talking about walkin up to a girl and just sayin "hey baby"...but I don't actually say that crap = P
2007-02-22 11:56:53 · update #1
I'm a total tomboy too...I think the stronger feelings for boys are what creep me out. I dunno.
2007-02-22 12:03:31 · update #2
Funny, many guys find the exact opposite true.
I guess we have more to fear from the opposite sex. We fear what we do not understand.
2007-02-22 11:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by DougDoug_ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josephine, certainly guys are sometimes more aware of great looking girls and often figure that they don't stand a chance with them. Often though many of these guys are the nicest guys and just shy. I suppose that is why we sometimes see not so attractive people with others who we consider very attractive, they just have enough faith in themselves to approach these beautiful woman. But often guys know that you do not have the reputation of giving it up for free or very easily so they won't bother with you, not just because they think you are too good for them but also because they are only after one thing and are aware that you aren't giving what they are looking for. And a lot of fella's have dreams of getting together with a gal who sounds and looks just like you when they are ready to settle down, but not while they are out trying to sow their wild oats. Keep your morals and values as they will not do you wrong as you grow and mature. But if you decide to become one of the other girls that are getting all the guys then this reputation will follow you into adulthood etc. You will meet a nice fella and it will probably happen when you are least expecting or looking for it as it will be very natural. Believe in yourself and best of luck.
2016-05-24 00:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aah baby doll, its hard for me to imagine you not being able to talk to anyone. However us being girls its not that hard. To be honest when u find a guy u really like u usually don't kno what 2 think or feel. 2 answer ur question girls r easier to approach than guys b/c ur more comfortable around them. U r one so naturally u would be more comfortable around them.
2007-02-26 11:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kisses 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard women say just about the opposite. A lot of girls get along with guys better. So who knows which is true. But male macho attitude is stupid.
2007-02-22 14:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by zeroartmac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why. I guess it's different for each person. I find it the other way around. I can talk to males better then females and all my life have always had more male friends then female. Maybe it's just different for each person. Good question
2007-02-22 11:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still a tom-boy at heart---I can talk to guys easier than girls--no drama with the guys just straight shooting
2007-02-22 11:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think the opposite
2007-02-22 11:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose you can relate with girls better since you are one and you know how they feel about things. You know what they want and it's easy for you to communcate with them
2007-02-22 18:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, the answer you may be looking for is... because thier afraid the girl will say NO!!
2007-02-22 11:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by CG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the opposite, i can start a conversation with any man in the world, women just don't like me.
2007-02-22 11:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋