It's been 1 year of my marriage. My husband works as a school teacher about 4 hrs drive away. So we only meet in the weekends. I have a limited liabilty company so i cant just leave my work and go live with him..my husband wants us to be together but he is too attached with his school...should he take a transfer or should I go to him?
2007-02-22 11:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by dark angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The two of you need to come to a compromise. If you follow Yvette's line of thinking you'll be throwing your marriage away. Marriage is about equal partnership. NOT who is more important, it is not a competition. My husband had to move for work early in our marriage, we tried the long distance relationship and after one week I started packing. You and your husband can figure out what will work best for the two of you if you sit down and talk about it. No one else can answer your question, talk it out.
2007-02-22 12:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do your priorities lie? With your husband or your business? Sometimes marriage means sacrifice and compromise. I would suggest finding a place somewhere in the middle. That way you can be together and it would cut commute time for your husband.
2007-02-22 20:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who makes more money? Who is able to transfer without a difficult time finding another job? Compromise... marriage is about whats best for both people, it's about give and take...if we can give we should.
2007-02-22 19:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both need to discuss who will sacrifice for this decision. Two people who need & want to be together do what is necessary to fill the goal. Your direct needs as a couple come 1st
2007-02-22 19:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN MY OPINION YOU'RE THE WOMAN AND YOUR NEEDS COME FIRST AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU NEED TO BE WHERE YOURE AT TO KEEP YOUR JOB AND ALL HE NEEDS TO DECIDE WHATS MORE IMPORTANT WORKING AT THAT SCHOOL OR LIVING WITH YOU AND TAKING UP BEING A TEACHER CLOSER TO YOU.
2007-02-22 19:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
transfer or loose him to another women and he will seek the comfort of home....
2007-02-22 19:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him. You answered your own question. Reread your question.
2007-02-22 19:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋