I've had always gravitated more toward casual than relationship sex... mind you, I have had two serious relationships.
I recently came out (to myself, anyway) as a lesbian, and I have haven't had much experience with women... once not too long ago, and again more recently. And the thrill of picking someone up and having mad, hot sex with her... omg, I dunno, after that, I wonder if I could have sex with the same person for years and years. Or maybe it's just that I'm new to the gay relationship/dating scene.
Is anyone else honest enough to admit that they like casual sex? I have been called a s-l-u-t (yahoo won't let me spell the word directly) on yahoo! answers before because I openly admitted to liking sex for the sake of it... hey, I'm human and I have needs! So sue me!
2007-02-22 11:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
More power to you! Casual sex is a great thing, mainly when it's all both partners want. Screw the rest of them, go out an enjoy life! I'll admit to being with you on this.
2007-02-22 13:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by blue_devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer both, but I choose for committed sex. This because I have a very good relationship and I don't want to hurt my man. I also don't want to damage my relationship with him. If he wouldn't mind, I would definitely have some occasional casual sex.
2016-05-24 00:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer committed sex with someone I love but if I'm not with someone seriously then I'm all for casual. Even then I do prefer casual RELATIONSHIPS where I'll be seeing the same person for a while but we can sleep with other people if we want and there are no expectations. It's good because there are some people who are so hot but aren't someone I could have a proper relationship with. So I get to have lots of great sex with them anyway. I'm not as into one night stands but they have their place.
2007-02-22 15:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by helehelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what does "I'm human I have needs" have to do with your relationship style?
What just because someone is in a committed relationship they suddenly don't have "needs?"
That's just a cop out for knowing full well you have trust and commitment issues.
I'm not calling you a "S-l-u-t" at all here, don't get me wrong.
But I do have to worry about those who repeatedly have multiple sexual partners and who have had few if any committed relationships.
2007-02-22 19:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Causual Sex
2007-02-22 13:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Rissa
I agree with you,After my gf passed away,I don't think i could ever make a commitment again, Granted the casual doesn't come often,but im ok with that
Hope this help's
BYE
2007-02-22 13:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m a leo sun and scorpio moon cancer rising gemini mars and gemini venus and i go for comitted sex
2016-05-31 11:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Eleanor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋