I get gay thoughts constantly ilike them but i have a girl freind what do i do. I keep looking at porn and want a gay partner. First off anyone want to be my partner and second off any advice.
2007-02-22 10:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hey you know that if you were gay you would know if you were gay not somebody else ...your the one who's suppose to know not somebody else ...
2007-02-22 10:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by jemba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, I'm not a man and I don't know who you are so the answer to your first question would be no.
Second, probably you are a bisexual and not gay if you also like a girl. You'll either have to decide which way you want to shift more...you can't keep 2 things at the same time unless these other people are willing to share.
Good luck and take care. Go ahead and have fun but be careful of STD.
2007-02-22 10:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, break up with your girlfriend.
Second, this isn't a great place to get a lover. Don't just jump in the bed with some strange guy. It's dangerous. Dating men is like dating women; you need to get to go to a place where there are people who aren't promiscuous, and you need to get to know the person first before you have sex. My advice is to join a gay church and meet some nice guys.
Finally, you might join a support group or get a therapist that can help you come out.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 10:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have desires to be with someone other than your girlfriend (male or female), you owe it to her and to yourself to end the relationship to search for whatever it is you're looking for.
My advice would be try meeting other gay, bi, or bi-curious men and talk about the way you feel. This could potentially result in you finding a "partner" or it could result in you realizing that you're as interested as you thought. More advice... you may not want to offer yourself up to everyone who read's your question. You are not desparate, so you shouldn't want to come off that way!
2007-02-22 10:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kim G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am a woman, so I don't think we would be good partners!
Secondly, if you are having thoughts and fantasies about men, and want to be with a man, tell your girlfriend!
Honesty is the key here, and it should be up to her if she wants to maintain a relationship with you.
I have been in this position, my ex was curious and didn't tell me, I found him in bed with a friend 3 days before our wedding. I would've been more open to his sexuality if he had just talked to me. He didn't. If you love her then talk to her, if she's just a girl leave her and go experiment.
You have to find yourself by yourself.
what ever you do, becareful and have fun! :)
2007-02-22 10:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already have a partner: your girlfriend. Break up with her, then you might find a nice guy to be with.
Second of all, nothin wrong with thinking about other guys. Doesn't necessarily mean your gay.
2007-02-22 10:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a girlfriend but want to look for somebody else than break up with your girlfriend. It's not fair to her.
2007-02-22 10:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BASICALLY YOU GOT TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND COME OUT. THEN JUST TEST THE WATERS SO TO SPEAK AND ENJOY BEING 19 AGAIN
2007-02-22 10:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by joshmisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop playing a game with her and be yourself. us strait guys want our women back.
2007-02-22 10:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋