Why associate with the people when they give you so many problems, pressure? Why have kids? I already know the answer to that.
2007-02-22 10:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by the BABY 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The kids part I can understand. If you don't feel comfortable with kids then don't have any. As far as the world, how will you ever grow mentally. The world and everything in it is gonna give you problems, but then you work through that to show that it can be done. You can also learn and grow from the experiences you have. You can show people you are better than what they throw at you. Just don't get suckered into a game with people that lowers your standards.
2007-02-22 10:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too negative. You will find in the world that which you are looking for. You expect to see jerks and have problems , so that is what you get. Look for the good in the people you have contact with, let them know you expect good from them and that is what you will get. WE get back from this world what we put out. The people you have contact with will mirror your attitude. Are you perfect? No, so don't expect it from others. And if you cannot like the people in your life, at least learn to tolerate them. The best thing in this life is , while you can not change the world, you are able to change yourself, and the choice is yours..you can continue to be a bitter, unhappy person, or you can decide to be happy, no matter what happens in your life. Happiness is a decision you have to make..no one can give it to you, and it doesn't float in on the wind..it is how you set your mind, how you see your world. When you change the way you think about things, the things you think about change. When God created the world, He rested when finished and said 'All is good'. It only becomes bad when you think it so. Change your thoughts. As for kids..I hope you don't find the answer to that one after it is too late. They are the Good. You could learn alot from them. In short..LIGHTEN UP MAN!!!!! Life is too short!
No one has ever said that life was supposed to be easy, or fair..if life was fair bras wouldn't come in different sizes!
2007-02-24 07:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is looking for something to love, and someone to love. Thats why we live everyday, for the hope of something. Without the pressure there would be no satisfaction in the end. You associate to differentiate the good hearted people from the ones you should keep your distance from. Life is never perfect. Just remember everyone has issues coping with and understanding the people around them.
don't be discouraged.
2007-02-22 18:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Love your life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because no matter how much people irritate us, our contact with them anchors us in the here and now.
You don't need to associate with anyone but you do need human contact from time to time for a dose of reality.
2007-02-22 22:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't cut people off just because others are unfair. Gotta learn to get over the hurdles in life and move forward!!
2007-02-22 18:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋