2007-02-22 09:56:41 · 32 answers · asked by PrettyLittleLiar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the fact that she is willingly returning to work is a sign that she's trying to resume her life and hopefully entering the healing process. I am sure she's prepared herself to deal with her student's reactions but none the less, being bombarded with sympathies is going to be a constant and painful reminder. I sincerely hope your classmates use tact and class in their approach. If you feel compelled to offer her a gesture, I would simply let her know that there are no words available to provide the comfort you wish for her and her family.
In my personal experience, hearing the universal "I'm sorry" is very impersonal and offers very little solace to someone who's recently had a very private loss.
2007-02-22 10:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by wyld_roze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for her loss, and you should say that. comfort her and tell her that he is with god now. buy her something nice and make her a card. (include something important to her.) persuade the whole class to behave that day and when she walks in, have the class all get up and welcome her. one by one, they can go up and give her a few words. it's good that you care about your teacher, but this will all work better if more than one person does this. therefore, she knows that more than one person cares.
2007-02-22 10:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say your sorry for your loss and if their is anything i can do to help please let me know and until the last day of school try not to give her any problems because belive me she doesent need it and dont ask her any quistions about it eathier just be cool qnd treat her the way you would want to be treated if some one you knew or loved died okay i know this because i have experinced my dad died last year so yea i have experience so the best of luck to you.
2007-02-22 10:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by antenille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if words can help but your actions can. Just be a good student and if you see your class mates acted out tell them not too. The less stress she has the better she can get though the day.
2007-02-22 09:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. devour each and all of the nutrition i under no circumstances have been given to attempt. 2. fall in love with the guy i've got consistently wanted to. 3. see my relatives one final time, and assure them that i might see them later. 4. flow to an orphanage and supply all my funds the two to each newborn.
2016-10-16 06:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her someting encouraging...like "i'm here for you". People who experience loss of a loved one do not want to hear you ask how they are doing. They ned time, and all you can really do is be there, or pray.
2007-02-22 10:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bklyn.style 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just offer a hug and say you're sorry about her husband. It's very hard to do, but it's probably harder for her. Offer if anything you can do.
2007-02-22 10:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing just make a card that you feel for sorry for her secretly set it on her table and dont put your name on It. Beacuse maybe she doesn't want to talk about It in class.
2007-02-22 10:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sk8terMov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are sorry to hear of her loss....and then maybe hug her if you feel close enough to her. If not, then you at least offered sympathy, which is all you need to do.
2007-02-22 10:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is used to u talking to her i would let her know u are sorry 4 her loss but if not then i wouldnt say anything it might be to soon
2007-02-22 10:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Adele.S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋