On Valentines Day I bought the guy I've had a crush on for 3 years a Crush Gram from the club I'm a part of on campus. I decided to remain anonymous. A friend from the club asked her friend to deliver it to him. I bumped into the friend that delivered it yesterday and she told he that I made his day and that he's been wondering who the sender was. I asked the friend if he had a girlfriend. She told me yes but it's not like they plan on getting married that they're only together for the fun. I told her to not tell him who i was but to tell him that it's someone he's known for quite sometime and that I've had a crush on him for quite sometime.
Do I still have a chance at him? I'm not the type of person who likes breaking up relationships especially serious ones.
2007-02-22 09:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I didn't know he had a gf when I sent him the crush gram. I just desparately wanted to tell him that I liked him without making a fool of myself.
2007-02-22 09:57:54 · update #1
Well, if your Crush Gram made his day, then obviously there isn't much of relationship to break up. However, remain cautious! If he is interested in you while he still has another gfriend, what makes you think he will be loyal in your relationship? I'd just talk to him. It's all fun and games to remain annonymous, but if you want a real relationship, you need to come forward and let him know you are interested. I WOULD make the point that you did not know he had a gfriend and that you will only date him(or whatever) if he is not exclusively dating someone else because you wouldn't someone doing that to you. That, not only tells him that you will not go behind another girl's back, but also tells him that you do not want him going behind your back if a relationship should develop. Good luck.
2007-02-28 05:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by ldlivengood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the crush gram actually solve? He knows someone likes him but who? Call him!!! Yes, that's right..call him. The only way to know if he likes you, is to ask him. Once he knows it's you, an old 'friend', he might admit his love for you....maybe he's waiting for you all this time. You won't know unless you come forward. Why let someone else have the love of your life? GO GET HIM GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 09:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by jere r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey suga, if what u r saying is true u have more than a shot! but he may not b ready for commitment. sure that was a real compliment 4 him 2 recieve. ur in ur prime do u? dont b scared 2 take what u want, but also don't expect it 2 b more then fun.
2007-03-02 08:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already has a girlfriend, I think you should back off. If he was your boyfriend and some other girl had a crush and was sending him love letters you wouldn't like it.
2007-02-22 17:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the f**k is a crush gram,are we dealing with a 10 yr old here.
2007-03-02 06:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i think u do because he'll prolly start to realize that his relationship is pretty useless and isnt going anywhere! so dont give up!! maybe then u can reveal that you like him!
2007-02-22 17:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you still have a shot at him
but, get closer so you won't miss
2007-02-27 11:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mountain One 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋