for about a year now. i am pretty sure that he doesnt like me because he dated someone else..but they broke up and he still likes her. he knows i like him and we still are friends and stuff but ..i dont know..im head over heels for this boy... in the past i havent had much luck with guys...im the typical music is my life band geek...seriously its all i do...and this kid is in band(yippee!). now he is a grade above me and is 17 and im a 15 year old sophomore. does anybody have any advice for me?? he is the one i just sit up and think about at night...and he probably doesnt even care. i know that he knows but i guess it just doesnt matter to him. someone help please.
2007-02-22 09:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by fluteloop071091 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be brave and ask him out. Send him a note and ask him out!
2007-02-22 09:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he knows and you guess it doesn't matter to him, you are probably right - it doesn't matter to him. So take it from there. In musical terms, are you going to practice a violin every day for hours at a time with the hopes that it will turn into a tuba? NOT. So think about real possibilities instead of this. You'll make progress in your love life and it will distract you so much, you won't even remember this guy's name!
2007-02-27 05:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
i was pretty sure my current bf didnt like me
but then i gathered up some guts and found the courage to ask him out
and well... he said yes.
maybe you should flirt with him
kind of get to know him
i liked someone else alot but then my current bf sorta pulled me away cos i started to like him alot.
it depends the kind of guy. if he's a nice guy, he'll either say yes, or reject you politely. if he's one of those preps who have no respect and dont give a care about the other people around him, then he'll either say yeah whatever, or he will say no ur a nerd or something. not to be rude. if he says no, just remember there are other guys out there and you don't need to cry over it. just move on then. remember, be swift and cool, and flirt. it always works for me.
good luck! =)
2007-02-22 10:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda having the same problem.. but i just hang out with him alot and we r like best friends.. so just make him notice you but dont drool over him when hes standing right there.. and heres some advice DONT tell your friends hes hott or what ever cuz ive made that mistake and my friends embarrassed me so much!!!
2007-02-22 09:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Eli Manning Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you really don't want to hear this but if he doesn't like you then you need to move on. Find another guy that will care for you as much as you care for him.
2007-02-22 09:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by tweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can still like him but find another boy to be with in the mean time. i was like that recently and me and the boy were really good friends. he called me one night and asked me to leave school early with him one day. i really wanted to go but me and baby mom are really good friends. i went because i couldn't tell him no. i ended up havin sex with him and i think it ruined our friendship he wont agree but i kno it did. trust me if you are really good friends dont ruin it like i did! well i hope i helped some.
2007-02-23 07:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out if he turns you down then you know how he feels and you can move on...
2007-03-02 08:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by NDmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who can get girls don't date younger girls. Only losers do...Trust me...
2007-02-22 11:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make some sweet music to his ears, tell him, tell him,tell him...
2007-03-01 23:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go for it..... Good and strong.... just be wise and keep your legs closed.
2007-02-22 10:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by nmilover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋