Should I lead this woman on? She's a waitress and she's looking for a man to support her; I pretend like I'm willing to take care of her but I just want to boink her. I'm tempted to use her before she uses me -- what do you think? Oh by the way girls, skip the nasty chauvinist comments - females are as bad if not worse than males ...
2007-02-22 09:43:33 · 27 answers · asked by ekim2211 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my man......... first off start off with a fake name so she has a harder time tracking you down later lets go with Phil Suckaloosie i like that name go get yourself a cheap prepaid give her that number and only give it to her take her to a hotel cheapest one you can find maybe one that rents by the hour use the shi-t out of her boink her pretend to love her and when your tired of it throw the prepaid away and forget who she was and hey don't feel bad and don't look back and if you want to go back for a piece once in a while tell her you are in the army and you were shipped off to Iraq and just got back and start the process all over again ...........good luck i am so proud of you.......Chris
2007-02-22 10:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by cmann70726 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've found that being honest can get you more of a good thing than leading someone on. Try telling her that you are interested in having a good time and nothing long term. You might be surprised that she might actually feel the same way or that she would still respect you enough for being honest and go out with you anyway.
2007-02-22 17:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it takes you stating you want to take care of her now days to get a woman into bed. Problem is if you just want to boink her....what if she wants more (and not just sex)? Consenting adults shouldn't have a problem being straight forward and not playing games.
2007-02-22 17:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont tell her you want more than sex, then your really not in the wrong. Thats up to her to decide if she wants to risk boinking you without a commitment, if she's fool enough to believe. But, it would be very screwed up to fake a commitment and lie and then leave her.
2007-02-22 17:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. a woman looking for someone to support them may try to trap you by getting pregnant. so if she's REALLY ok with you just wanting to sleep with her then she may try to protect herself more with birth control, condoms, etc. but if she really likes you, then she may still try to get pregnant just to keep you around and then force you to take care of her and the baby the hard way...child support. it happens all the time, so i say either tell the truth and beware, or move on to someone that's not so needy/dependent. casual relationships work better when both people are on the same level as far as education, status, income, lifestyle, etc.
2007-02-22 17:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by madi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont lead her on, just get her drunk and bed her. If you do that she'll feel awkward after and wont count on you for support or anything. I'll admit its a bit bad since she wants a man to be there for her, i wudnt do it myself, but everyone loves sex! And you're right about girls being as bad as guys! Why do they blame us so much!? lol
2007-02-22 17:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by KaZ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just let her know you arent with a relationship.....as long as you put that out there then it's her bad if she still gives up the azz.
Dont lead her on..... keep it real.....she'll still give it up it might just take a little longer.
2007-02-22 18:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a friend with benefits. If she thinks you are just a knight in shining armor and you turn up a dude in tin foil...not cool. You wouldn't want that to happen to you if you were in her boat! Sexism aside...everybody has needs...you just NEED to be honest!
2007-02-22 17:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be pretty pathetic to have to lead on an honest woman just to get laid. If you just want to throb the knob, go to the club. There are women there with one track minds too.
Shame on you. You're a dang looser. :-(
2007-02-22 17:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People should not lead other people on. Because one does it doesn't mean the other should.
2007-02-22 17:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by CL R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋