Really it's her work, not mine. She just works with me. In a very relaxed environment where we basically just hang out and talk. Awsome job huh? Anyways, She's really cool with being friends here but she basically came to the point of being friends only here and really not in her real life. She did not directly say this, but it meant that pretty much. Do you suggest I even try to persue making it into being friends outside of this, in her real life? Or, just forget it and be completely ok with what we do have? She's already said many positive things about me, it's not she wouldn't think I'd be a good friend. But, it's like we met during her work, so nothing can come outside of that. Seems kinda crazy because she obviously knows I'd be a great friend to have in any situation. Let me know what you people think and explain your response. Thanks so much.
2007-02-22 09:35:17 · 3 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Really it's her work, not mine.She just works with me. In a very relaxed environment where we basically just hang out and talk. Awsome job huh?Anyways, She's really cool with being friends here but she basically came to the point of being friends only here and really not in her real life.She did not directly say this, but it meant that pretty much. Do you suggest I even try to persue making it into being friends outside of this, in her real life? Or, just forget it and be completely ok with what we do have? She's already said many positive things about me, it's not she wouldn't think I'd be a good friend. But, it's like we met during her work, so nothing can come outside of that. Seems kinda crazy because she obviously knows I'd be a great friend to have in any situation. Let me know what you people think and explain your response.Thanks so much. To answerers so far, it's not really at a work.She works with me in my home. I'm in a wheelchair. She helps me a lil, we mostly hang out tho.
2007-02-22 11:08:27 · update #1
i agree with the guy above me ^, it seems like you really like this girl. but is too shy to admit it, but, of course, that wasnt ur question. lets see, lets see. well, if you want to get to know her outside of work, then why dont you arrange a date or gathering with some friends at work. so, then you can get to know her with sort of a same environment (so shes comfortable) but still you're outside of work, and can talk about other things (so you're comfortable)
2007-02-22 09:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you invite a foursome to do supper at a restaurant near the workplace as a kind of 'half way' house thing. then she will see how you behave in a social situation. And you will see HER behave in society too. Maybe she has no table manners!!!! (JK)
Then maybe a day or two later do it again just the 2 of you.
Just a thought.
2007-02-22 18:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like girl
2007-02-22 17:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Carol Lynn R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋