How many have u been with???

Question

I'm 16 years old and I've been with 4 boys. Do u think that's too much. What about u??? How many sex partners have u had???

I've already been tested for any trasmited deseace they were negative. Plus my fourth one is still with me and he's been the only one for almost 2 years!!

Answer 1

I dont understand you young ladies why is it when a 16 year old boy sleep with 4 girls he called "THE MAN", but you girls are judging this young lady and your pretty much saying she a "SL*T" she doing exactly what boys are doing today enjoying themselves
just as long and this is very important that she is using "PROTECTION" at all time you can sleep with how many people she wants to.

Answer 2

If that is the truth then be warned, you probably already have a reputation as a ****, sorry but it's the truth. And be prepared that you are going to cop a lot of critism in the answers that people write.

I had only been with one person when I was 16, and didnt increase those numbers until I was 18. I am 21 now but I am not going to disclose how many sexual partners I have had because it is irrevelant to you- I don't know you.

But be careful because you have already had four. If you don't find the one guy and settle down til you are 30 you could easily take those numbers up to about 40 if you keep going the way you are.

I am not trying to judge you but a lot of my friends were with a lot of boys when they were younger and they regret and are ashamed about it now. Think carefully before you choose to sleep with boys. Set yourself a time limit, eg: wait until you have been seeing them for 2 or three months, etc before you engage in sex.

When I was younger I tried not to have sex for about 3 months into a relationship, it worked really well- some times I broke up with the boys before the three months so I am really glad that I waited.

I hope this has helped you

Answer 3

Well, I' am 21 and had 0 partners. Their isn't really no set limit of partners a person can have because times have change dramatically. But for your age slow down and make sure the person loves and respect you like your recent boyfriend. You don't want a bad rep and be label something you are not. Keep being safe and protecting yourself. Good luck.

Answer 4

sweetie slow down....thats a bit much for 16. and im not a prude or anything, its just common sense. im glad u have stuck with one boy for a while now, good for u. but in general, dont just give it up to anyone for no reason. i obviously don't know you, but i know some young girls have no self esteem and will do whatver the boy wants them to because they think they will love them. the reality is, at that age the young boys dont always care. theyre horny all the time and its sad but they will want to have sex with you whether they really like you or not. just be smart about it and have high standards for yourself.

Answer 5

it's hard to say kid. emotionally and physically, the pace you're going at could hurt you. then again, you're presently in a committed relationship, and anyone could be your last. I'm not saying I haven't had one night stands or that they're wrong, but you must try to have sex for the right reasons. quantity will never be as fulfilling as quality. play safe. by the way 17 for me, I'm 25, male, and I've been in love once.

Answer 6

Yes that is too much. Gross. Hope you get tested for STDs on a regular basis.

Answer 7

That's way too much.

I hope you're using protection (condoms) so that you won't die of AIDS before you're 18.

Answer 8

it's not a contest, but you are winning! 6 here

Answer 9

its not a competition, its all about having a good time!

Answer 10

i had 0 so far:(