2007-02-22 08:54:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well obviously its too late for the "making good decisions" speech so just tell her that you love her and support her. I personally do not believe in abortion. You need to let her know there is a tough road ahead of her, don't sugar coat it, tell her its not going to be easy and she needs to learn from this. I know its hard not to get angry of frustrated but I can imagine she is scared right now and I'm sure you are too. So you are both going to have a lot of growing to do together. Just don't let it drive you apart. Best of luck to you both.
2007-02-22 09:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummmmmmm why do u gotta lie to these peepz? U don't have a daughter that is 13 and pregnant. I believe u are the one that is 13 and pregnant. Previous question was ur 180 pounds and would be 13 soon. Come on people....think about it. She was to be 13 soon. Get it? Now she is 13 and pregnant. Some people or not stupid. But NEVER EVER get an abortion. Its wrong no matter how u look at it!!!!!!!! But in my opinion, if u spread ur legs and do "the act" then u gotta take on responsibility and for the boy that got you pregnant........it is his fault also. If you two weren't mature enough to use "protection" then both of you need to take responsibility. If you don't want the child, give it up for adoption. There are lots of "mature" couples who would love to have a baby. My sis and bro n law is married both of stable jobs but cannot have children. They want one so bad. They are have been through training and looking to adopt a baby. But the moral of the story is.......you are too young to be a parent at age 13. You are still a child for the love of God!!!!!!!! You are not mentally or physically able to take care of another child. The child most likely will be takin by child protective services unless you have a good family support. Give the child a chance at life. A good life with two mature parents that will be able to give it everything it needs and wants. Children are a gift from God. Little Angels. I have 7 of those little angels (6 girls, 1 boy). I love each and every one of them. They are my life. And to think of people telling people to have an abortion......YOU ARE ALL SICK!!!!!!!! I can see if you have a life threatening issue that u aren't to be pregnant or it will kill you carrying and giving birth......thats fine. But even if the child is found to have severe problems in utero .......its possible to raise them with proper parenting and the know-how. The children didn't ask to be put on earth.......why kill THEM? I despise abortions with a passion. So think it over and do whats right young lady.
2007-02-25 05:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by tigerbrat21531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a teen also. Take her to the doctor first. For one, you shouldn't make your daughter get an abortion, because you can go to hell for that. 2nd you, and your daughter will regret it in the long run.
You just need to talk to your daughter about her situation. Even tho she was in the wrong by having sex, and getting pregnant, you should still be concerned and understanding about all of it.
Not only you, but your daughter just might be going thru alot too. The things you have to ask yourself are: How would she feel if I MADE her get an abortion? or Is the father of the child going to be in her and his childs life? But then you have to ask her. Did she want to get pregnant? Did she use protection? Or was this just a lust thing, and it was an accident?
Like I said before, you and her should talk. And don't get too much into detail, because you can make things worse. Talk to her as if she's a mature young adult.
But that's your choice if you want her to get an abortion. Even tho you can't make her get one!!
If she doesn't make sure she takes care of her child, and she could use a little help from you also and other family members who are availible. & make sure she stays in school, i mean atleast graduate.
Besides the pain. You'll be okay in the end.
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-22 09:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~BLESSED~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can NOT make your daughter get an abortion! She has parental rights. Why would you even think about making her get an abortion? Abortion is murder! That child has a beating heart and it depends on your daughter for life, and if you get an abortion you are taking that away from that tiny life. That life is defensless.
I would discuss her options with her...BUT TRY NOT TO GET HER TO HAVE AN ABORTION! There are PLENTY of couples out there that would just die to have a baby, but they are incapable of it. All your daughter needs right now is support. She has already learned from her mistake and doesn't need anymore punishment.
Try to be there for your daughter and help her out as much as you can...but DO NOT RAISE THIS CHILD FOR HER! It was her own fault, and if she asks you to take care of it then say no. She needs to learn from her mistake, although she almost already has. My friend is 14 and has two kids already, and let me tell you, boy did she learn. She raises those kids on her own with the help of her older brother because her mom is in jail and her dad is a crackhead. So just be there for her and support her.
2007-02-22 12:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In another question you are an over weight 12 year old... NOW you have a pregnant 13 year old daughter??? That is freakin' AMAZING.... I would call The National Inquirer!!
You could start by finding a new hobby rather than spending all your time thinking up these rediculous questions...
2007-02-22 10:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by RaLoh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You my friend, should be ashamed. How can any 13 year old get pregnant??? I have a 13 y/old and there is no better form of birth control than playing an active role in your kids life and setting a good example. Good luck to what is left of her ruined future!
2007-02-22 09:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by cowsstatic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think all you can do is support her. Its already done, you cant change that. Ofcourse, there is abortion, but that is NOT a good idea. It can cause so many emotional problems for you daughter. I think that if she does not want to keep the baby, adoption is always an option. She can always visit the baby. Just support her in any way you can. Make sure that she knows that she needs to be smart about what she does.
2007-02-22 09:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your daughter and let her know the options and now the consequences of being 13 and having a baby.
2007-02-22 10:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow your 12 years old with a 13 year old daughter? How the hell did that happen? Get a life and ask real questions by the way thanks for the points
2007-02-23 01:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by lilshedevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the Father and how old is he? This could very well be a serious crime.
Does she want to have this baby?
YIKES, I don't even know what to say. This is terrible.
Talk to a Doctor and a Counselor with your daughter, decide the best option for her.
Poor Thing, I feel bad for her, she's just a child.
2007-02-22 09:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋