I borrowed but he knows my situation so i tell him he will get it back in time but he dose not believe me...
2007-02-22 08:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
so, what do you want from us?
If you can't pay him back, maybe you shouldn't have borrowed it in the first place.
I would suggest that you give him a little something, as an act of good faith.
2007-02-22 08:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you borrow the money? Wether he is secure or not doesn't really matter, it is his money. You should always try and pay someone back as quickly as you can, if it's absolutly not possible offer to give him something as colateral until you can get the money to him. Let him hold onto your watch, or favorite shoes - anything to give him a bit of piece of mind.
Even if you have to pay him back a little bit of a time, you should try to do it in a timely fasion.
I've lent people money where a year will go by, and I see them spending money they obviously don't need to and they still say they can't pay me back. I find it very disrespectful.
2007-02-22 09:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do include white guy in your question? Would the situation be different if this guy was another race? Seeing this flaw in your personality would lead me to believe I might not get my money back too.
Regardless, if you make an agreement with someone, you should honor it. If you can't at the present time, try to make partial payments, or offer something you have that he can keep until you can afford to pay the money.
2007-02-22 09:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by backpackwayne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
White, Black or Brown not an issue, however, you have to tell the lender when you will give it back. To promise something in time does not mean a thing, that is why he does not believe you.
Go borrow the money off family and pay the original lender back his money. . .problem solved, it is called refinancing.
2007-02-22 09:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then borrow money from someone to pay this guy back. This time, borrow money from someone who will trust you.
Also - pay them back something! Even if it's 5 dollars a week - start paying.
2007-02-22 08:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer74781 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you should never borrow money unless it family
2. astk im if you can pay it off in installment
and if not well i cant help u anymore
2007-02-22 08:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by astridtonto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You borrowed it, you pay it back. On his time scale, not yours.
2007-02-22 08:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Slappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least start giving him a small amount back each week if nothing else.
2007-02-22 08:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay him back ASAP. What does his skin color have to do with anything?
2007-02-22 08:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by dapixelator 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋