Hi, I am studying in the best Uni in UK postgraduate, and my life is a complete mess, honestly don't know what to do about it.
I am doing a postgraduate course in the best university in London and now I have meat an amazingly hot student whom i was dating and having sex with for the last month. However I feel that it has taken away my focus from my studying and that i can't work anymore on my exam preparation. The guy is also studying very hard and we are both seem to be having problems because we don't have time to spend with each other, we need to concentrate on school, we are loosing focus, seems like i loose it more than the guy..
Anyway the guy is an international student, he is likely to live in june after exams back to his country. Is it worth me getting into relationships with him and falling in love when he is probably leaving?
How do I deal with it? I can't stop thinking about the guy, even when i am suppose to study, what shall i do? Do I need to break up with him?
2007-02-22 08:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is money motivation enough? Study well and you will get a decent job. To hell with short term partners! They are not going to help you pay your bills . . .
2007-02-22 08:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Aslan, reborn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a break for awhile from him, focus on studies, because your studies are your future, the man may not be. don't throw it all away because of a bad judgment. there is plenty of time after to resume the relationship. he is leaving also and that means he may not even be there.
2007-02-22 16:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study first love second because you have to think what if he dumped me for someone else education is something that will set you up for life and if you are like most girls at this age you will fall in and out of love every few months just think about ten years from now
2007-02-22 20:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, break it up. If he does return to his own country you will be split up anyhow.
Once you have completed your studies who knows what may happen. If you still feel the same then you will be able to travel.
You have all to gain and nothing to lose by sticking to your studies now. (Hard as it seems, you know it makes sense)
2007-02-22 16:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less shagging, more studying - or it's a lifetime of work in a take away.
(You want chilli sauce with that?)
2007-02-22 16:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by hedgeybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop shagging on ya books and study more! :)
2007-02-22 16:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your degree. Damn i wished i listened to my parent.
2007-02-24 21:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋