Ok, so my best friend is a girl and I was wondering, since it happened today. When girls sit on guys laps, playfully, do they know how hot it is and feels to the guy?. Or do they do it intentionally and enjoy it? I was wondering, because even though I often tell my best friend that she's like a sister to me, and I do mean it, she is hot and I can't help seeing her in that way also. No matter how protective and loving of her I feel, istincts still kick in when her great a.ss is on my lap. I know she isn't flirting with me (at least not in a serious way) but do you think she knows how it makes me feel? We are 15 in case that matters.
2007-02-22 08:36:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
How can a girl understand the experiences of a boy anymore that you can understand how she feels. I think that she may just really care about you and not realize the attraction you feel for her. Keep each other as friends cause that will last forever.
2007-02-22 09:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Best Friend" It is hard for a women-girl and a man-boy to be best friends and just keep it best friends.
Two guys that are best friends, you don't generally see sitting on each other laps. Some girls sit on each others laps.
The closer the friendship becomes the more intimate the friendship becomes between male and female. Which is a natural thing.
Case in point, when the best friend (female) sits on best friends(males) lap, the best friendship has move to a new level, If it hasn't, it soon will.
You should discuss what your best friend is doing and what it is doing to you. With all of the sexually explicit stuff around even in school and out it is possible your best friend pretty much knows what the effects are of her sitting on your lap.
If she doesn't' she needs to know.
Remember, that has been one of the first steps that lead to babies being borned.
2007-02-23 22:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by smially 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at 15 a girl starts to realize the power she has over guys. This is the time when she starts trying it out. Your friend probably doesn't know just how crazy her sitting on your lap makes you feel, but she probably knows you enjoy it a bit. If it makes you too crazy ask her to stop, although I'm sure you don't want her too :) Just hang in there and keep respecting your friend.
2007-02-22 17:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by victoria_vill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are 15 really matters in this situation. She is just playfully flirting and doesn't know how crazy doing this makes you. She does know it arouses you, but she's not aware of just how much. You just keep showing your dear friend how much respect you have for her and keep your self control. She will understand it all in due time. Why risk a great friendship over your male instincts getting out of control? I think it is great that you think enough of her not to take advantage of her flirting. I hope all the wanna-be real men will read what you wrote and learn how guys are really supposed to act. You could teach them all a lot about how to be real!
2007-02-22 16:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, we know what we're doing to the guy. Sitting on a guy's lap is a great way of flirting with him and confusing him. I think your friend knows this and has successfully confused you. Sorry to say it but either she's just playing around with you or she likes you and is kind of forward (and to you, confusing) about it. She knows exactly how it makes you feel and maybe this is her way of letting you know how she feels. If you're quick on the uptake, that is.
2007-02-22 18:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by skaur1290 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably hasn't got a clue. Just tell her not to sit on your lap 'cause it gets you all riled up and you appreciate her as a friend. So to keep matters simple, just don't do it. You guys are all raging hormones at that age, but you're also wound up in the world inside your head. *shrug* Talking is awesome. Not talking is sucky. Good luck.
2007-02-22 16:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know girls don't know that its hot to sit on guys laps to them. At least I didn't know how hot you guys think it is anyways...Sounds like you have a little crush on your friend. At least by the way you are talking about her. Cute.
2007-02-22 16:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by hopeisnotforgotton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 15 does matter, And yes she probably does know how it feels. It probably feels good to her. You have to talk to her when no-one else is around. Either she considers you "safe" to behave this way or she wants to explore a more romantic relationship. Either way she might get mad at you. They kind of mess with you at that age.
2007-02-22 16:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Niklaus Pfirsig 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not know at that age that she's making you hot as a firecracker!! Next time she looks like she's gona sit on your lap just stand up :-}
2007-02-22 16:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by queenone4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, well you are fifteen. My hunch is that you would get the same response if you had a toaster on your lap. Just the way of puberty.
My suggestion...if you value your friendship, tell her to stop.
2007-02-22 19:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋