I am 24 going on 25 and my husband is 14 yrs older than .He just had a heart attack and was diagnosed with lung cancer so i am worried about his health . We have been married a year and half.I suspect i might be pregnant i took a test last night and got a faint positive but very faint so i am not sure.I have really irregular periods sometimes only every other month even though i am on the pill.Should i wait to say anything ?
2007-02-22 08:11:08 · 20 answers · asked by Melrose G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont want to shock him because he did want one but i dont think he meant this soon.
2007-02-22 08:14:54 · update #1
go to the doctor for a blood test. If it is positive tell him.
2007-02-22 08:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait before you spring it on him. Especially if it turns out that the faint positive should've been a negative.
Just wait another week or so and take another test or to be on the safe side, go to the doctor and get a blood test done so you'll know for sure. And if you are, tell him. He'll be glad to hear of your new blessing!!!
Wish the best for ya!
2007-02-22 16:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and find out for sure before you tell your husband. He doesn't need the anxiety one way or the other when it comes to not knowing. If you are pregnant, Congratulations!! It's a wonderful thing to share with the one you love!
2007-02-22 16:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hon a faint positive is a positive. i have been pregnant 5 times by my husband trust me i know. go ahead and tell yout husband but dont make it a suprise. just start talking about babys and build up to it. that way when you tell him it is not such a shocker.
2007-02-22 16:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until 3 months into the pregnancy. Then you are very likely to carry the child to term.
2007-02-22 16:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test again in a couple of days to be sure. Why get his hopes up if you're not sure yourself? With luck (if it's what you want) it'll be positive and you can share some good news with him - sounds like you guys need it!
2007-02-22 16:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a blood test, if you are then just sit him down and tell him, it might make him want to be the cancer even more, you know have something else to live for.
2007-02-22 16:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought was " who else are you going to tell?"
Then I read the rest.
You might want to wait until you are sure.
2007-02-22 16:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you find out for sure. You don't want him to get excited only to let him down.
2007-02-22 16:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by April B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take another test and if it is positive tell him
it will make him happy.
If you are not he might be upset to find that you are not so make sure first.
2007-02-22 16:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋