i've been with my husband for two years but before i got married with him i liked very much his best friend and now were are seeing each other and he tells me that i should leave my husband and leave far with him..... but the problem is that i have a kid with my husband although the other guy tells me he will treat him like if its his! what should i do?
2007-02-22 08:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by sexymamma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to leave your husband that is your choice but you can't take his child away from him. He IS the boys father and they both deserve to know each other. The other guy sounds like a jerk. Only a real a** hole would have an affair with his so called "best friend's" wife and try to take his family from him. And to be honest I don't think much of you either to be considering going with him or having the affair in the first place. If you didn't want to be with your husband you shouldn't have married him in the first place.
2007-02-22 09:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by C T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok , first of all is not love, you will always have that one tru love.. my aunt told me this saying.. " there will always be the men you fall in love with, the man u marry, and the one you should of married"... something like that. This is a really hard situation just because you have a child. Don't feel you hae to stay with your husband cause of your child but you do need to weigh out the future before you make a decision. This will affect , your husband, family, yourself , child and eventually your "love" think from the heart, good luck and hope everything works out for the best.
2007-02-22 16:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump this so called best friend until you get a divorce. And the other guy has no business treating your kid like it is his, the kid has a father and doesn't need such a bad roll model in his life.
2007-02-22 16:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you can't. Sometimes when life gets a little routine and mundane we fantasize about someone else. Tell your husband and get rid of this ''friend,'' he is certaintly no friend to either of you. Your child needs her daddy, not a substitue. Besides,if this guy is crass enough to make a move on his friends wife, then after a while he''' do it again to someoe else.
2007-02-22 16:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I 'm not sure i have the same problem. But I think its possible. You see speacail someone #1 and you love him and you see #2 and you love him. so..yes i think it is possible.
2007-02-22 16:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i didn`t think these situations actually happened
stay with your husband for your childs sake
2007-02-22 16:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by neil q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a tramp!i hope your husband finds out and leaves your skanky @ss! but if he doesnt dump the boyfreind and be faithfull to your husband!
2007-02-22 16:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a Whore
2007-02-22 16:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋