I'm going out with a lady that's married. I'm not in a relationship right now. Her husband doesn't treat her right nor respects her. I have known her for more than a year. I know that what I'm doing isn't right because she's married. I started developing feelings for her. We've been going out as friends for some time, I know her husband. About a week ago we kissed passionately. I'm sure that if I keep on going we'll end in bed.
I know the best choice is not to see her again, but that's not what I want or what she wants, I think. Being honest with her husband is also not a viable option, since I don't have plans of being with her my whole life, she knows that.
2007-02-22 07:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Alan G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is not your place to come between a husband and wife-end of story. It's too bad you have feelings for her, but you MUST put an end to your friendship.
2007-02-22 08:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking of continuing a relationship with this woman think of this: If you and she were to hook up would you trust her, as her husband trusts her? She is being deceitful to him, therefore, she is a deceitful person. And what goes around comes around. You really should end the relationship and let her decide what is going on in her marriage without the added burden of carrying on another relationship. She tells you her husband doesn't treat her right, if that's the case, why is she still there? There are always two sides to every story (and sometimes more). Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-22 16:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Stay away from her. She is married. You are lucky her husband has not come for you so far. Respect others' marriages even if they are on the rocks. Would you want some man to do this to your wife?
2007-02-22 15:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making her your "right now" love & go out & find the the love of your life. You already know that this isn't right, do the right thing. Walk away.
2007-02-22 16:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right behavior is to not court a married woman. If she wants a divorce, she should get one. Then you may court her.
2007-02-22 16:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are treading on sacred ground. Run and run and dont turn back overriding all feelings and emotions related to this woman if you are able to think straight.
2007-02-22 16:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You respect her even less. She is spoiled and deceitful, so no wonder. The poor guy should get a divorce.
2007-02-22 16:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by healing wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were smart, you wouldn't enter a relationship with her. You'd run the other way as fast as you can.
2007-02-22 16:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point of your post? You're playing games and you need to stop it.
2007-02-22 15:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋