i always be a loner ,looking for opportunities to make bigmoney ..neglecting about marriage .I keep saying with money you can find your love .Therefore i said i will get an oversea bride a vietnamese. I meant to be a joke . Never did i expect , my friend married a vietnamese bride withour consulting me. his wife give birth to a baby and now returning to vietnam for 6 months ,I know my friend will miss her and he is sad.he advising me to get his wife's friend but i didn't like the idea of that .Is he trying to make me sharing the same pain like he is now ...eg wife returning back to her country.... is it a sign his wife might leave him after staying in her country for so long .can you advise on it ..greatly apprieciated for your help
2007-02-22 07:36:08 · 2 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats just the way its done. She will go back to her family, mother, sisters, aunts.. whatevers, for awhile they will nurse her back to strenght and help raise the baby. at least meet the "friend", if shes cool then marry her but make her sign a prenup
2007-02-24 16:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by BBQ & Beer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's scared and just wants to get back to her "home". When she came over here did she expect to marry someone? Put yourself in her body. Maybe you don't know the whole story. She could have a lot going on. He's not trying to make u share his pain he's trying to help u. If u don't want to then u don't. But u do need to try to be there for him and show support.
2007-02-22 15:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by divaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋