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i was to be the maternal grandma of twins that never came home i was told they miscarried @9 months the mother has not spoken to me my son seemsto think they died no death certificate what can i do

2007-02-22 07:17:44 · 10 answers · asked by HURTINE L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Newborn & Baby

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There is a large misconception about miscarriages. You can't miscarry at 9 months. You can have labor and still birth at that time but it isn't called a miscarriage. There should be a birth and death certificate for both babies if this actually happened. You would need to get in touch with your states registrar's office of vital statistics. If you have the mother's name and father's name, and date of possible birth, then you would be able to see a copy of a birth certificate. They should also be able to help you with a death certificate if there is one. I wish you the very best of luck on your search.

2007-02-22 07:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0 1

someone is lying to you. your son may not want the responsibility and told you this horrible thing. The mom may not want him around and told him the same thing. It is extremely difficult to miscarry at 9 months. I had a cousin to miscarry at 8 months but she had a list of health issues. Go to the town where the children supposedly died and check for death records, it is not confidental, its public knowledge for death,marriage, and birth certificates. She may have lied about the pregnancy all together.

2007-02-22 07:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well there would be a birth certificate if they were born on file and same with a death certificate. Talk to your city's clerks office they have all the files and you should get some answers. And no, they cant diappear off the face of earth. Maybe she just left without telling u with the kids.

2007-02-22 07:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by marriedsoon 2 · 0 0

No they cannot. Somethng isn't right here. There would have been a birth certificate and a death certificate. Call the hospitals record department and ask how you can get a copy. Maybe she was never pregnant.

2007-02-22 07:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0 0

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2016-09-29 11:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You don't miscarry at nine months. That would be considered stillborn. A stillborn baby doesn't get a birth certifcate, just a death certificate. I'm sure of this, I just read it.

2007-02-22 07:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0 0

Call a lawyer, or even the hospital. You don't miscarry at 9 months, but they could have been stillborn. I'm so sorry.

2007-02-22 07:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 3 · 0 0

you might want to check to see if they were ever really born. she might have been lying about being pregnant in the first place. you can't really miscarry at 9 months. they can be still born or die shortly after birth.

2007-02-22 07:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0 0

Anyone who said that babies can't miscarriage at 9 months is just wrong. And they aren't recorded as births. And it would take a lot of scrounging around to get hospital records.

2007-02-22 08:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by roger a 3 · 0 1

what do you mean dissappear? no one can simply disappear

2007-02-22 07:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by PurpleAndGold10 3 · 0 0

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