2007-02-22 06:55:13 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
RUN!!!!!
2007-02-22 06:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by jeninsocal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean.. you don't think you are responsilble? Well then, when was her last period, when did you have sex with her and are you the only boyfriend she has? If you can answer all these questions and know the dates.. then you are more than likely the father and that would make you the responsible party.. see this is why there is birth control out there and it should be used each and everytime sex is involved.. cause there is ALWAYS a consequence to pay.. pregnancy.. or STD's and even AIDS.. so cover up.. or better yet.. just quit having sex.
2007-02-22 15:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with her? If so, even with protection, there's a chance that she's pregnant with YOUR child. Condoms are only like 95% effective, meaning 5 out of 100 people who use them will get pregnant every year. Don't think you can't be one of the 5 because you can. But if you know she's been sleeping around, have a paternity test done, which you can do safely once the baby is born. You can get yourself and anyone else you suspect DNA tested, and they will tell you which man's DNA matches with the baby. However, if you're just freaking out because she's pregannt and you don't want to support her so you're trying to find a way, I can understand that it is scary, but be a man. You laid down and made this baby, now stand up and support it!
2007-02-22 15:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your girlfriend, and you doubt her? So, you think that she has cheated on you?
For now, I think that since she is your girlfriend that you should stick in there with her and support her, until a DNA test shows that you are not the father.
You don't want to be slapped in the face that you are dodging responsibility if the baby actually end up being yours.
I would not suggest signing the birth certificate either, until you are sure that, that is your child.
2007-02-22 15:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to discuss it with your girlfriend and decide what is best for the baby in the future and for the 2 of you. I really didn't think we were ready when I got pregnant, abortion was on my list of things to do. I just had my baby girl 3 wks ago and couldn't even imagine getting that abortion done. You learn so much in those 9 months and grow to love and now is the time to get responsible. You are now going to have another life in your hands. I talked to a pastor and he let me to leave all the worrying to god. So I did and now I'm watching my daughter swing looking up at me and for me even thinking abortion just makes me cringe and feel like the worst parent but she is here and that is all that matters now.
2007-02-22 15:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by usmcvalle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to wait until the baby is born and have a paternity test. But since you are not sure I say still be there for your girlfriend it could be yours and you don't want to ruin the relationship on a hunch.
2007-02-22 14:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit down and talk to her about what you are feeling and make sure you have a valid reason why you think this!!! If you and her had sex, then you def are a runner in the paternity game!!!
It is best to know when she got preg and all that good stuff,,,,,,, you really should talk to her, and if you reallly feel you are not the dad then you have rights and will have to request a dna
2007-02-22 14:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why aren't you responsible? are you not responsible for the pregnancy (meaning you two haven't had sex in the time period) or are you not responsible enough to be a parent??
i cannot give advice on an issue so vague.
2007-02-22 15:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU MEAN, BUT IF YOU WERE HAVING SEX WITH HER THERE IS A LARGE POSSIBILITY THAT YOU ARE THE FATHER AND YOU NEED TO BE THERE FOR HER. IF YOU STILL HAVE DOUBTS AFTER THE BABY IS BORN YOU ARE WELCOMED TO A PATERNITY TEST.
2007-02-22 15:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a reason why you think you aren't the father??? i would say right now, just wait and support her until a DNA test proves otherwise. you would regret it if you didn't and the baby was yours.
2007-02-22 14:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by ricleigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand up and be a man. Support her all the way.
2007-02-22 15:00:42 · answer #11 · answered by iraqidesertmp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋