It was my fault mainly, though he is not totally innoccent. But girls, you know when you are being an unreasonable cow and you can't seem to stop yourself?
Good ways of making it up to him please? He's a great bloke and he didn't deserve to have crap thrown at him today.
2007-02-22 06:46:08 · 24 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have a nice dinner waiting for him when he gets home. Dress in something nice. Husbands like to come home to their beautiful wives. Fix up your bedroom with candles. Seduce him.
2007-02-22 06:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Only you know what he likes best ... whatever it is, do it (cook him his favourite meal, or get in the bath together with some wine and candles, etc).
After you've done it, just look him in the eye and say, "I'm sorry for having been such an unreasonable cow!". Tell him the best part about an argument is the kissing and making up bit!
I've been in the exact same position hon, and I know my hubby appreciates action more than words.
2007-02-22 12:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just humble yourself and explain to him in detail what things you said and why they were disrespectful? Just saying sorry isn't enough. Make him understand that you get it - and if the "unreasonable cow" thing happens at the time of month you might want to explain that to him as well. No matter how long you are with a man he will ALWAYS forget the time of month and how it plays a huge factor in us rearing our ugly heads when we are emotional/hormonal basketcases.
2007-02-22 07:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, saying why you are sorry and give a solution..example
" I am sorry for blowing up at you today. I'll try harder next time to control my emotions and not make you my punching bag."
And instead of just going off on him (because, you yelling at him, is 100% YOUR fault..sorry) be NICE, if you feel angry, like you are just going SCREAM SCREAM SCREAM SCREAM go over and give him a really big hug Or a kiss, depending on how loud you want to scream) Truts me, it works and there are no hurt feelings in the end. Or have sex! Sex and frustration go together VERY well..
2007-02-22 07:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds slightly egocentric and controlling to me. If he loves you and does not desire a divorce he ought to appreciate you and permit you your comments on what you think of the concern is etc. no longer reliable to push aside your remark with a "positioned down". it fairly isn't any reliable attempting to unravel themes whilst you're in the direction of a controversy. Ask him to make some time for you as quickly as each week, the place you have absolute time to handle any themes you the two have approximately your courting, a intense-high quality calming environment, candles, a bubble bathtub mutually or some thing comparable, and set some regulations, No blaming one yet another, in simple terms comments like, once you pronounced/did this the different day I FELT such and such, ask what HE meant or why he pronounced or did it, verbal replace is a 2 way highway and additionally you need to hear one yet another and appreciate each and each others perspectives and examine out to artwork it out. If he's incredibly no longer drawn to working on your courting in a loving, being concerned, respectful way then in line with hazard you will possibly be able to might desire to assert you're no longer prepared to be in such an unhappy courting and additionally you deserve extra effectual, wish you are able to settle in this, reliable good fortune, enable him examine this and picture approximately my comments. in simple terms examine the final little bit of your question, re him quoting the Bible, how many human beings use the bible to justify their behaviour! i do in no way remember everywhere in the bible the place the boys verbally abused their women, in case you had a religous wedding ceremony did in simple terms YOU promise to love HONOUR AND OBEY??? i do no longer think of so.
2016-10-16 06:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I congratulate you for realizing that you just acted like an idiot.
I have done this with my wife and she with me. The difference is, I usually realize it after the fact and apologize; she rarely does, even when she is wayyyy off the mark.
Just throw him on the bed and sex him up so much he won't be able to see straight. I realize this always seems like the answer, but for the most part - we men, more than almost anything, want to feel like you just can't keep your hands off of us. Huge ego boost and a lot of fun.
2007-02-22 07:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him give him the biggest cuddle and kiss, tell him your sorry and drag him upstairs to prove it, gud luck at least ur mature enough to realise u were in the wrong an he's a lucky man for it lol
2007-02-22 07:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by DeViL..^--^~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing to my boyfriend sometimes..and i hate myself for it because it just makes the situation worse. Apologize to him whole heartedly, hug him tell him that you love him and that you are going to work on being a better person to him. (and mean it) Then time for the kiss and makup session!
2007-02-22 06:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by him a tie and have only the tie on (read naked) when he comes home from work...the argument will be quickly forgotten...especially if you answer some sexual fantasy of his...do this quickly as passible and you won't need to go into it...then leave it alone...don't discuss it unless he brings it up..guys are easy to please...we're very predictable...
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2007-02-22 07:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull him aside and give him an earnest apology and a great big hug. Remind him of how great he is!
2007-02-22 06:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋