If you ever heard a man say this, he was probably joking.
2007-02-22 06:37:38 · 45 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm talking about as an alternative to sex, not precluding sex or afterwards either.
And I am reffering to dudes with chicks. Not dude on dude (not that there is anything wrong with that)
2007-02-22 06:44:21 · update #1
And sitting on your azz watching tv with your girls doesn't count
2007-02-22 06:47:34 · update #2
No...sex or just roll away pls!!
2007-02-22 06:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by wjigga22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Blaze to be honest your wrong I say this to my wife all the time because I would rather cuddle than have sex, sex is meaningless.. It has no emotion to it, the reason for me saying that is simple sure passions flare and the two people want to get in at it but it's just a heat of the moment thing it's not something that will win you the womans hearts, but cuddling will it shows that your there for the girl and your not just in a relationship for sex as most girls these days feel pressured to give sex just to keep a guy, and if that's the basis of a relationship then it shouldn't happen because as I have said Sex is meaningless with no emotion and shouldn't be the basis that you base a relationship on...
so for me I cuddle more than anything with my wife, even before we were married I cuddled with her more...
2007-02-22 06:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the people saying if he loves you he will cuddle you.
I know most men would probalby really rather have sex, I am not speaking of cuddling as a replacement for sex, but yes, when a man really loves you he will hold you in his arms, at least once in a while. It is very intimate to be held in someones arms, and a man that REALLY cares for you will do that, from time to time.
2007-02-22 07:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times I'm pefectly happy just cuddling with my wife. I don't always want sex, and I enjoy the time where we can be close and cuddle without it leading anywhere. I think our society pushes sex way too much, and puts WAY too much importance on sex, and not enough about building the relationship. There's alot more to a relationship than sex. And people get that confused way too much.
2007-02-22 07:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is the problem guys only think of sex when cuddling can show the woman your with that you are not in the relationship just for sex.
There are more important issues that getting a piece of *** showing her the side you you that is sensitive to her need just to be held can win her heart and may get you a little more sex in the process.
2007-02-22 06:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couch or bed, sometimes with a movie on - just lazily running fingers through her hair. In the old days we'd whisper and share dreams. And yes good cuddling involves your arm falling asleep.
But she thinks that's stupid now so we don't do it at all. I really miss it. It doesn't have to lead to sex. (It does now and then, but usually not.) It felt so good back then it would just put me to sleep. Tenderness without sex is like love heroin. Recall the nice scene from 'Groundhog Day' when Phil tells Rita he loves her. Good like that.
2007-02-22 07:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sometimes one or both of us is too tired for anything more. It is still nice to hold each other and cuddle with my wife. It's a way of being intimate without much physical exertion. I think there's a lot more guys who like it more than you might think.
2007-02-22 06:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys use this line to make you think that they are all sensitive. but it is a line of sh it.
i don't think guys are capable of being close, intimate without the need for sex.
especially in bed.
as soon as you learn that people sometimes say whatever they need to get whatever they want the sooner you will be all grown up.
if you want to be cuddled, get a dog, or a stuffed animal.
2007-02-22 06:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually looove to cuddle with my gf. I love when we lay on a couch and fall asleep. I use to be, yes sex, and all that, than latley I relized.. wow.. I actually love spending time with this woman (3 years.. we just ended last month :(). However, we ended it on good terms, we told eachother we both loved eachother, just.. she went to school and I stayed behind. Horrible losing a bestfriend.. but when you fall in love.. yes, you'll see guys like to cuddle.
2007-02-22 06:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet we do. Sometimes that is the best part of all. If you have to ask that question, you might want to think about finding another guy. We are out here. Come find one of us. We will cuddle all night long, and whisper sweet love words in your ear....
2007-02-22 06:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right after sex for about 10 min till my arm falls asleep
2007-02-22 06:39:34 · answer #11 · answered by Drew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋