2007-02-22 05:57:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That he's one of the minority who don't associate visually attractive bodies with sex activity.
Maybe he was a Knight Templar in a past life.... I'm not joking, the Templars (who were men) really did have a discipline that mentally separated female beauty from sexual activity.
And/or maybe he has a relatively advanced spirituality. Or then again, it may be that he has a repressing religion, or family, or early experience, that has got him believing that sex acts are unacceptable or unsafe (e.g. dirty or disgusting or dangerous).
Yet another possibility is that he is highly creative.
A 4th possiblity is that he has plenty of sex drive but doesn't reveal it to you.
(In comment on another answer, liking strippers is an indication of his NOT being mainly gay.)
2007-02-24 01:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by MBK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you mean that he only becomes sexually aroused by porn and strippers, but not with real life women, either:
1. He has a sexual dysfunction and needs to learn to associate real life women with sexual desire - perhaps he has spent too long as a teenager looking at porn and let's face it, most women don't look like that! or
2. He has emotional issues with women and they get in the way of experiencing sexual desire with a real life woman. What was his relationship like with his mother? Was/is she a formidable character? Does she belittle him? I'm wondering if his lack of sex drive is linked to a deep anxiety about women and relationships?
2007-02-23 09:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by imamonkeyoohaooha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he has desensitised himself by watching too much porn and it makes it boring now.yet he still feels the need to associate with women to prove he is a man. he isn't gay just worn out
2007-02-26 09:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by sylvie c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally Men, physcially Gay.
2007-02-23 04:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Yup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋