my lawyer showed me evidence that my ex transfered $436k cash out of U.S before and between i divorced him 2 years ago. the evidence is provided by my ex's current wife who was his girlfriend then and helped him to laundied money into her Canadian account. she is divorcing him now after married 15 months, the wife kept more than $125k out of the money he send to her, now, they are fighting for it.
The deal for me is: i have to help the wife get what she wants(keep $125k) then she will let me use the evidence to reopen my divorce (she hired the same divorce lawyer).the wife is not a decent person for my opinion,she involved this man with all the calculatings,she treated my daughter badly, even send letters to her elementry school to bad mouth her. so helping her is really against my heart, but it is the only way to get evidence for my case, and i want justice for me and my daughter, it feels like make deal with evil, what should i do?
2007-02-22 05:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by nan1999y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow the advice of your lawyer.
2007-02-22 05:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very cautious on that. Yeah, it sounds all good but ask yourself why would she be willin to help you now? You said that she has done all these horrible things to you but all of sudden, she is willing to help you with your divorce from the same guy?? In return she gets her money and you get evidence to reopen your case? What did your attorney say about all that? I find it hard to believe that the both of you have the same divorce lawyer and he agree for the both of you to do that. What if the evidence that she has doesn't help your case like you want it to? Then what? She has her money but you are still left with nothing. I really think you should think through all of that before agreeing to do what this woman wants you to do. And I feel if you are already have second thoughts in your mind, then that is a sign that you shouldn't do it. What are you tryin to do back to court for any way? Do he has custody of the kids, house, finances, not payin child support, or what? If he doesn't have none of that, why even bother going back through court.
2007-02-22 14:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new lawyer immediately. And contact the State Bar Association immediately. It is an unethical conflict of interest and against the law for your lawyer to be involved in both sides of this issue. You are being snookered! Stop this association with this lawyer immediately and get a new one. The new one will be shocked, and he will tell you how to proceed. Good luck with this.
2007-02-22 14:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds risky. I would have your lawyer draw something up between the two of you since you have the same lawyer it shouldn`t be a problem. That way nobody can *** on their end of the bargain........ hopefully. Then go get him.
2007-02-22 14:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. But make her sign an affidavit first. Women power!!! I always said that you should talk to the last woman that he was involved with before getting involved.
2007-02-22 14:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consider your marriage over several years ago, and move on with your life and forget your ex ever existed.
2007-02-22 14:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get it on with the wife
2007-02-22 14:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by igiveup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the IRS & ask them to look into it . See what they have to say.
2007-02-22 14:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her hell no you're not going to do it, she's on her own.
2007-02-22 14:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not trust her, or help her for that matter.
2007-02-22 13:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋