He just made a profile on myspace and this girl already wants to be his friend. What do I do?
2007-02-22 05:41:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Why is that even an options for him??
I mean he is your husband after all.
You need to tell him how this makes you feel
and if he really loves you he will listen to you.
2007-02-22 05:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what exactly your husband is doing on MySpace in the first place. Is he just on the site because his buddies are? Is he using it for networking purposes? Or does he have more shady motives? How much do you *really* trust your hubby?
With that said, some people on MySpace see new people have joined and want to add them as "friends" just so they can say "I have 203,570 friends on MySpace" (like it means anything), so that may very well be the case there. Hope this helps, and hope you get the situation figured out soon!
2007-02-22 05:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. If you are uncomfortable enough with that situation to go on the internet and ask a bunch of complete strangers their opinions, then you're already pretty unhappy about it. Beyond that there isn't much more you need to know.
Communicate any anxiety you have to your hubby. He should understand and act accordingly.
Also, there's no telling who that person is on the other end of the internet. It could be a guy, for all you or your husband know, or a Brazilian tranny, some grandma in a nursing home, or just some bored teenager (male OR female). Hopefully your husband has enough common sense not to share TOO much with this complete stranger whose entire existence could be fictionalized!
2007-02-22 05:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lars M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a problem as long as the conversation between your husband and this new friend is platonic. If its about anything gearing towards heavy flirtation and sexual innuendos, then yes you have a problem. I personally don't like myspace because there are many messed up people using it as a way to get their kicks....so just track the conversations going on there...i mean, don't spy and get crazy, just be aware.
2007-02-23 05:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by venus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is a hard question. Sounds so very harmless to "just" chat with someone of the opposite sex doesn't it? I know my daughter thought so. Her husband walked out on her and left 4 small children. Yes, she trusted him completely and thought what harm can a faceless female miles away cause I truly find it hard to say sure but I think if your asking you are not comfortable with it so the answer would have to be NO not a good idea at all. Time to set Hubby down and have a heartfelt chat with him. I wish you luck and peace of mind.
2007-02-22 05:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only high school/college kids, or people that want to hook up use Myspace. If your husband made a profile on Myspace, he is already thinking about cheating on you, sorry to say it.
2007-02-22 05:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Vakari 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A girl friend is not a girlfriend.
Is he allowed to have friends in real life that are women? This would be no different. If you trust him IRL, you should trust him online.
As for random myspacers who try to friend strangers, some are whackjobs and some are very normal. He's an adult, he can probably tell the difference.
2007-02-22 05:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by soelo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i might honestly attempt to fulfill her. some kind of team accumulating or informal beverages with acquaintances.....enable her see there's a face and a character to you, THE spouse. each in specific situations, a single co-worker can overstep their obstacles with a married co-worker and not even are attentive to it. finally, nonetheless, it is your husband who has inspired her habit and additionally you will possibly be able to desire to verify whats happening in his head that he thinks it fairly is okay to have somebody you do no longer understand (different than via him) in this manner of intense friendship place, so rapidly. I do ought to show, that myspace acquaintances are not precisely some thing to sweat through fact it kind of feels so superficial, however the reality that they are persevering with a artwork courting exterior of artwork honestly outcomes you and additionally you need to comprehend what and who you're handling.
2016-10-16 06:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer this question better than yourself. Ask first yourself, then your husband -- then your neighbor, then
us the strangers by order of priority. Give yourself 9 points for your own answer -- out of 10 and the other advice max. one point. Then decide. I guess you see my point -- no one can decide for us how we feel, or we want to feel on "personal issues". It also depends on your upbringing and past and present relationship with your house-bound "husband". Voila my 5 cents worth of advice and hope it will help.
2007-02-22 07:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband had a girlfriend on myspace, Then he would not be in my space anymore!!!
2007-02-22 05:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on how much you trust your husband. I don't know about him, but if I am your husband,
I would definitely want a complete trust from my wife and if you can, try to communicate with him your fears and your desire to put your 100% trust in him.
I believe if you communicate well with him and have faith in him, he will be faithful to you and there is nothing for you to fear.
Hope this help. Cheers
2007-02-22 05:46:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋