It´s weird, but i just feel a big attraction by women. Specially if she´s lesbian. I am a man and i think if i was a girl for sure i´ll be a lesbian.
What can i do, i´d like to be a woman and love a girl not a man. Help me!
2007-02-22 05:41:08 · 3 answers · asked by Frajola 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you feel like you want to be a woman, and are attracted to women (but AS a woman), then there's a possibility you could be a transgendered woman who identifies as a lesbian.
There are two issues at work here: 1) Your gender identity - how you see yourself as male or female, masculine or feminine. Your gender identity sounds like it's female, so you may not be comfortable within the body you have now (male). And 2) your sexual orientation - who you're attracted to, emotionally and physically. What you're saying sounds like you like women, but as a woman, which means you could identify as a transgender lesbian - or just a lesbian in general.
My advice is to find a trans-friendly (I can't stress the 'trans-friendly' aspect enough) therapist who can help you figure this all out. Gender identity is a lot to tackle, and a therapist can help you sort everything out and help you get yourself comfortable with who you are. And, if you want to, start on a road to transitioning into who you want to be. Or, if gender identity might not be the issue here, can help you become okay with being yourself as you are.
2007-02-22 05:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to become a woman, I'd think that the first step would be to seek out a gender therapist and talk with him/her about how you feel. You also need to understand that what you are feeling is OK -- no shame in it. The counselor can help with this. I don't know where in the world you are but look online or in the phone book for transgendered groups in your area... get in contact with others like yourself -- it will make the transition so much easier.
Good luck
2007-02-22 05:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by barrych209 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have transsexual thoughts.. so do i. check out these websites and you can learn more about how you can truly identify who you really want to be, and how to get there..
http://tsroadmap.com
http://nikaaskini.com/
http://www.reneereyes.com/
www.urnotalone.com
2007-02-22 09:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋