i assume you are a girl asking here.. well, if he dumps you and startes dating men exclusively, then chances are he's gay.
if you and he have a happy and healthy sexual relationship, then he must be either straight or bi. if he really is gay, then i suspect he would feel uncomfortable having sex with you.
2007-02-22 08:40:57
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answered by Jeff 4
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I'm assuming that he has no strong mannerisms, which would give you a good immediate clue (not a good one, as i know some straight guys with mannerisms). Try to check him out cruising on a mall with a lot of people. Is he checking out for girls or boys?. That doesn't help much either, as I know gay guys that don't like cruising. There are not many ways you can tell, unless you ask him directly.
2007-02-22 05:45:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Best Answer: Have him met one of your male, gay friends. They can pretty much tell. Leave them alone while you are in the rest room at the restaurant. Make sure the your friend is very attractive, you know gay-bait.
Also watch his eyes wander when you are in public. See if he gravitates to men alot. Don't rely on this so much though. I tend to check guys out in public, but just cause I'd like to have biceps like them or like their style of dress, etc. Oh, I guess you will know the difference.
2007-02-22 05:44:53
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answered by loveandlightminister 2
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Depends! their are soe men who don't even act gay and you would have never known he was gay, then theirs are the semi gay actors lol and you can kind of tell by the way the walk, the way they use their hands when talking and maybe men you kid around about being, then their is the gay gay when the men literally act like woman....
2007-02-22 05:43:24
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answered by Kasja 5
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Well if he has feelings for you and another person who is male then he is Bi. But that's not the case. What you really need to kow is if he loves you, that is the most important, his sexuality is not!
These things need to be solved, you need to come out and ask him why he was lying and make sure you have evidence to back you up.
Plus those on here who is determining sexuality by a man's personality is well truly wrong. A personality is not what makes your sexuality, feelings does!
2007-02-22 05:43:56
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answered by FuturisticKid 3
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If he's your boyfriend, presumably you and he talk. So be blunt and ask him! There's no other way to know for certain whether he's gay or not. Body language doesn't tell.
2007-02-22 05:49:39
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answered by barrych209 5
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Is he effeminate? Does he squeal with exitement? Does he smile with all 32 teeth? Is he VERY religiously conservative and homophobic? Does he refer to his hair gel as 'product'?
I don't mean to sound too stereotypical-I love all my gay friends and have no problem with them, but these are ways to tell. Just trying to answer your question.
2007-02-22 05:43:14
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answered by Year of the Monkey 5
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Maybe he's not gay and just has a bad habit of sleeping with men.
2007-02-22 05:51:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Sometimes you just have to ask. Ask him. You can also get a gay person to talk to him. They can usually figure it out very quickly.
2007-02-22 05:47:24
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answered by robee 7
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Hire a private investigator
2007-02-22 05:42:50
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answered by Jason 2
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