im 14 and my g/f is 16... we have went out before a few times, nothing big. but then i realized that i loved her... and she loves me too. i know she does, we do everything together. we even ran away together because our parents wouldent let us be together. now everything is ok with our parents though. we actually got caught trying to run away, and her mom was so mad at her that she put a warrent out for her arrest. then she was in dh for a day, and was on house arrest for 2 weeks, and wasnt allowed seeing me anymore for 3 months, but we got through it.. i got caught at her house when i wasnt supposed to be and got the cops called on me, and got in a lot of trouble but we are still together. march will be 11 months... i know we did a lot we wern't supposed to do just to be together, but i look at it as we love eachother if we would do some much for eachother... but my mom says all teenagers go through that and we dont really love eachother, we just think we do. so i want to know, is there anyone that beleives teenagers our age can really love eachother?
2007-02-22 05:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by Jamar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Highly unlikely. But... If you are in love then take it slow and give it some space to appease your parents. If it is real love it will be there waiting.
2007-02-22 05:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Ya they can love each other I have known my husband since I was 5 years old and I knew that Loved him we didn't even date until I was in 8th grade and only for a few weeks. I used to talk about him to everyone he was the famous Josh I loved him since I was a child not a teenager! Then when I was 16 I just happened to stop by his house and we have been together even since. We are now married and have 2 children. Years ago it was common for people to get married right after highschool or even while they were in highschool mind you that was years ago but you didn't really hear about to many of those people getting divorced maybe they were on the right track people now a days are just never happy with what they have and want more so they look and look and look and end up dying alone because they could never be happy
2007-02-22 13:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by ShaunaMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know so when I was 14 I met my husband now who was 15 at a teen night we did alot of things together and loved eachother very much but he moved away and I never heard from him again time went by and I always thought of him. Well time goes by and little did I know he thought of me and wrote me a letter just to see how I was doing. We both lived in different states so to make a long story short it can happen It did to me I'm 24 years old and we both have been married for 3 years and are very happy they used to say a long time ago that what we had was puppy dog love hope this helps you Good 'Luck you crazy kids
2007-02-22 13:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe teens can love each other, but it's limited to their experiences in the world, and between the age of 14 and say 24, you will do a lot of changing, experience a lot of things, and being in love at 24 will be much different. Life is not always about love, it's about doing what's right, being kind, caring, giving, responsible, productive in society. By putting your love ahead of all your other responsibilities, you are acting immature, which means your love is immature. If you really loved your girlfriend, you'd be telling her to focus on school and education....not you.
2007-02-22 13:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love was 15 and i was 14, i am now 22yrs old. It didnt work out between me and him but i knew what love was. Take it slow, I agree with the first answer..if it is love it'll be waiting for you. Dont do anything stupid either..it doesn't pay to get in trouble for anyone. Your parents and hers are just trying to take care of you and set good examples...dont give them such a hard time..listen to what they have to say..you will say now that they dont know what they are talking about but when you get older you will realize they were right....take it slow enjoy your childhood..i miss mine so much..just enjoy being friends with her for now(even though you know in your heart you love her)...it'll come sooner or later..your chance to be with her forever..take it easy and live life...
2007-02-22 15:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by WonderWhy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you intend on going through all of that for someone whether you love em or not you got serious feelings for them. I'd call it love but u just gotta let that love grow and develop. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 14:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by CrazyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you can be in love. my parents started dating when my mom was 15 and my dad was 17, and my mom knew then that she would marry my dad, and they have been married now for almost 21 years, and I've never seen a better marriage. But I would be careful, don't do anything that you would regret later in life.
2007-02-22 14:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely can be in love, but be careful. A time will come when you'll get past those crazy hormones & you'll want to get more "experience" with other ladies. She's not exempt from this either.
2007-02-22 13:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Joan McBitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called puppy love and wou are very young and so is youy g/f i wouldn't be surprised if you both end up with different people because you will meet alot of girls in your young life and she will meet alot of boys in her life and then you will end up going seperate ways and that will be the end of it.
2007-02-22 13:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋