I missed my period on monday which was the 19th. I went and took a pregnancy test last night and it said I was Pregnant. I know it sounds horrible but right now I cant have a baby maybe a few years from now but not now I have a four month old and another would kill me...I know I should have thought about it before. but i still no what I need to do....Anyway So I just found out I was pregant and I want to know is there some kind of less expensive professional way of getting an abortion beside going to the abortion clinic and going through the whole abortion process which cost about three hundred and fifty dollars.... Since im not even a week yet can I go to the doctor and do it for a cheaper price? or what could I do.? I need proffesional suggestions
2007-02-22 05:32:47 · 20 answers · asked by NeedhelpFast 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I could say so many mean and rude things but i think i will keep it simple, your story is so offf, 4 days pregnant? it wouldnt show up yet.
I cant help you, abortion is wrong and i will have no part in it.
2007-02-22 05:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by BaBy KiSsEs!! 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If you're period's already late, you're 4-5 weeks pregnant. Since you were recently pregnant, you should know that doctors count pregnancy from the first day of the last period. That being said, you couldn't know if you were 4 days pregnant because it wouldn't show up on the pregnancy test until 14 days after conception....meaning nearly 4 weeks into the pregnancy (it's weird, I know, but that's how they measure it). Even if you WERE 4 days pregnant, though, it's too late for the morning after pill, since the latest you can use that is 3 days after intercourse.
Okay. So we have that you're 4-5 weeks pregnant. That's really the normal time to have an abortion. No, you won't get a discount for it being early. Best of luck though.
2007-02-22 06:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have missed a period, you are not a week, you are a month. You will have to go for a traditional expensive abortion. Can you really look at your baby and think about what it would have been like if you aborted her? If you can then have the abortion, if you cant dont. You will get throught it.
2007-02-22 05:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by krickee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no less expensive way to kill your child. If you missed your period four days ago, you are already almost five weeks pregnant. Your baby's heart is already beating.
Whether you want another baby or not, you HAVE one. He or she is just small and hard to see right now. No, another baby will not kill you, but abortion would kill your baby. It's not your baby's fault that you decided to have sex, or that her brother or sister is young. Your baby is totally innocent and does not deserve to die. I think you know this. You will manage. That is what families do.
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2007-02-22 11:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
FYI: you are probably closer to 4 weeks along, the way the doctors count it is from the first day of your last period. your 4 days late, not pregnant. the fetus is about 2 weeks old. (i'm 5 wks along, today, i missed my period on the 15th).
there is a pill, RU-486. i don't know the cost.
don't listen to the "murderer" yellers... listen to your heart. make sure you know what you are doing fully, before you do it.
good luck!
2007-02-22 05:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should have thought about that sooner. You're not 4 days pregnant, if you missed your period on the 19th, you're a couple of weeks pregnant! Baby's heart is already beating! Are you seriously thinking you can justify murder by saying, "right now I can't have a baby"? Get real.
2007-02-22 07:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Although i dont no the cost i have jeard of a pill you can take then a few hours later you have a bleed and its gone. But i would stronglt surgest speaking to soemone first as this could change your life.
2007-02-23 07:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Littleblonde-kacey is here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use RU486 the abortion pill, no idea as to cost though.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/RU486
As to the whether an abortion is the right choice for you, I can't say. I will say it is a serious decision that can haunt you the rest of your life. Mind you a child is forever too. Please try to get competant counselling before making a decision.
2007-02-22 05:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
people like me that have lost their baby, that they were trying for... for 2 years don't want to hear about people like you that don't know how to use a condom, get birth control, or just straight close their 24hr market, that men can come and go as they please...
abortion is MURDER.
keep the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption.
i'm sorry.. i am going through a hard time with my miscarriage.. just please don't kill the baby, it isn't the babies fault.
btw you are more than 4 days pregnant. you probably concieved about 2 weeks ago.. so in reality you are about 3 weeks pregnant. you can't get pregnant the same day your period is due.
2007-02-22 05:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy2Two!! 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You should really talk to a doctor about this, and not just anybody who happens to be on here. I don't know too much about the morning after pill, but maybe that could work. Most importantly: CALL YOUR DOCTOR!
EDIT: The people on here clearly aren't qualified to offer any help to you, as demonstrated by the idiots who have already answered. She's asking for advice, not your moral standpoint or to be ridiculed.
2007-02-22 05:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie M 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Damn the world, you have the right to suck that fetus' brains out because it is your body, right! It is no better than a tapeworm. Get that unwanted parasite out of there! The hell with those people who might feel like it is murder. Screw those moralists who say you don't have the right. They are just preachy.
My question to you is will you tell your four month old when he or she is old enough to understand?
2007-02-22 06:12:20 · answer #11 · answered by the_lateman 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋