But as soon as a woman does it, their told that their just feeling sorry for themselves and to get over it?
I remember when I was growing up, hearing my mother and friends complaining about this!
2007-02-22 04:36:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
LOL... I feel the pain. Describes my hubby to a tee!!
2007-02-22 04:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by SUzyQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a real problem or need to get it off your chest occasionally, a good man will listen. If you whine about the same stupid people in your office day after day, we tune you out.
Usually I try to leave the day at the office in the car when I get home. I'll share a story if I think it is entertaining. If I need to whine, I keep it short--the story can be told in five minutes if you try hard enough. Doing this makes "how was your day, dear?" a good way to greet each other, rather than starting out the evening in a bad mood. Oh, and follow Chris Rock's advice--give us a second to get in the door, pee, get a drink, and then start telling us all about it. We'll be much more receptive then.
If your man can't follow these rules, tell him to quit b**ching and get over it. If he doesn't like it, just tell him you don't want to argue, but you don't want to hear the extended version--can he sum it up. Communication is a good thing, but try to help cheer each other up, not bring them down with you. If you want to whine, do it quick and then change the subject.
2007-02-22 04:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When men have a bad day they come home and complain. When women have a bad day they come home and b i t c h and complain AT their boyfriends or husbands. That's the big difference between the two.
2007-02-22 04:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by sublime1973 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 00:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't come home and complain about it. When I have a bad day I come home smoke a cigar and drink a beer.
2007-02-22 04:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
very interesting...
i would have said the same reason women can. when women come home and their husbands/bfs never hear the end of it and then the guy gets mad. just get mad too when he complains.
Equal rights means equal fights!
2007-02-22 05:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you let the guys get away with it:you allow this.
You are not his mommy.
Let him get cooked in his own soup
Drop
expression where i live:Holland.
2007-02-22 04:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, but Ive found if you are louder, then you cant hear them say to shut up
2007-02-22 04:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Charisma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never complain about anything lady!!!!!!!!!
quit complaining
2007-02-22 04:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have ever heard that or witnessed it either, and it does not happen at our house
2007-02-22 04:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by ~The Medieval Islander~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋