Why is it that the ones you love, loves another.
I keep wondering what this means. can I get a better view of the question?
2007-02-22 03:54:56 · 11 answers · asked by Child of God 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
If you mean that the people you are attracted to love somebody else, then I think the answer is: then either it's not meant to be... or the time is wrong.
That question actually begs more questions. I would definitely question why it is that you love that person? Is it mainly a physical or an emotional attraction? Do you desire them more because they are unavailable? If so, the answer lies within yourself.
2007-02-22 04:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by bedros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the other actually does love you but in a different manner than you love them. A person may love you without conveying that affection physically. In that vein, a person may display physical affection toward another whom they love less than you.
Of course, there is also the old saying, "the grass is always greener on the other side".
2007-02-22 04:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by merlins_new_apprentice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This commandment is appropriate to each and all of the human beings via the international and to the cutting-edge international this is extra correct. in simple terms LOVE is going to reign the international in coming years. Witness and understand the reality.
2016-10-16 06:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are social beings with the ability to love EVERBODY at the same time. The only reason we may not love someone is because they don't meet a certain preferance of ours, or don't live up to a certain expectation we have of people, which in a way isn't really right, is it? Love is one word, with one meaning, there are no levels of love, you either love someone or you don't. Then there's attraction, and that is totally different. I think people get these mixed up. I love my parents, my family, my children, and my husband all the same. There is not one of them I love more than the other. But the difference btween those relationships and the one I have with my husband is that I am also ATTRACTED to him, that is why the things I do with my husband are not the same things I would do with the other people I have relationships with, even though I still love them as much as I love him. Now, we do also have the ability to be attracted to more than one person that we love, also, and this is where relationships get complicated, because this is totally normal. But this goes into a whole new category on what your own values on commitment are. You can't force yourself not to love someone, and not to be attracted to someone, but you can look at you values on commitment and base your choices on that. Whatever brings you more joy. There are some people who have multiple wives, loving each one the same, and being equally attracted to all of them, but their views on commitment and"one guy one girl" are different than others beleifs. But this brings them joy, and their wives are accepting of it, so everyone is happy. We can love as many people as we want. Its who we are commited to and who we choose to be with that makes a good marriage. Honestly, I know that my husband finds other woman attractive, and he has female friends that he loves very much. But do I worry? No, because he CHOSE to be with me and is commited to me, and this makes me feel more special.It makes me feel more special than thinking that he is with me because he needs me, because if you need something you don't have any choice in the matter, the choice has been made for you because you NEED this thing. But if you are CHOSEN by this person, it means that they could have chosen anyone they wanted, but chose you and only you, because you gave them something the others couldn't. Now we base our choices to be with people on many things, but it boils down to what brings you the most joy and fulfillment. I have an exboyfriend who I loved very much, and was attracted to, but I couldn't talk to him about the deeper meanings I saw in things because he saw this as " new age foolishness." He treated me good, but I still wanted more from a relationship, to be able to speak my mind and have someone understand me. My husband fullfilled all this for me, and that is why I chose him to spend the rest of my life with. And I'm glad I made that choice because if I would have chosen the other guy, something would always feel like it was missing. I still love him, and we still get along,though, and he has since gotten married also. But anyways, you get the point. Sorry, I was on a roll, and have never talked about this before, so I took it as my opportunity. Hopefully I answered your question somewhere in there!
2007-02-22 04:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose a lot of people wished to be admired on the same level as their adoration towards another.
2007-02-22 04:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Madmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One-sided love is no love... it is either attraction or infatuation both of which are preludes to love but not yet love and may never turn into love either.
2007-02-22 04:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by small 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really means nothing at all , realistically speaking... ... it is just the whining of a person who does not want to be involved and cooks up a supposed "love" to make himself look normal ... but pathetic ...
2007-02-22 04:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has different likes, and dislikes. Just like food, some people like spicy food, some like sweets. There is really no set rule it is called "human nature". Hope I helped.
2007-02-22 04:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a huge senseless absurd. Have you read Sartre, Camus or Cioran?
2007-02-22 04:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by sofista 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are teaching them how to love so they cant love the teacher.
when they do they usually do nothing but argue.
2007-02-22 09:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Travis James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋