i am having friendship with a guy since 8 months without any physical contact.can i continue.i dont want any contact with him as i am married.
2007-02-22 03:47:54 · 17 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nice to have you ask such a question here & to have so much self control & strong belief in yourself. Its very good that you have/make friends & live with them in LIMITS. Its not at all necessary that a male & a female cannot be friends without physical contact. Infact its the poor mentality of the people that makes them say that a male and a female cant JUST be friends.
But what I purely believe is until and unless you are contended at heart & wish to have a pure relationship, don't bother of anybody saying anything.
So, Happy Friendship.
Sandy <-- thats what my friends call me.
2007-02-22 16:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there is nothing wrong with people who are married to be friends with other people as long as it is kept as strict friendship and that boundaries are set, keeping the other one informed of the friendship like what to do and to do. Just make sure your friend knows the situation and agrees to be friends with you, if not then don't sweat it and just move on. It also depends on you feel about having him as a friend since you are married, if you are not comfortable then tell him you are not comfortable being his friend, but either way you need to tell him what you decide.
2007-02-22 04:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Men and women all over have friendships. As long as thats what it is and neither side wants more, then there isn't anything wrong with it. Friendship is a bond and comfortableness between two people. I personally don't see anything wrong with it.
2007-02-22 04:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by beaches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical contact with friends? I thought they come into picture only with relationships... (And I personally believe that too is wrong. No contact unless you are 100% sure that both of you are gonna stick toether throughout)
:-)
2007-02-22 08:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEHE..well one thing is sure ..if a man and woman is having physical relationship then they can't be friends......in tht case relationship will be much more than that.....have u ever seen frds with physical contacts??? at least i haven't....physical means either love or LUST but not friendship .................
2007-02-22 09:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship eliminating any physical intimacy is possible and feasible if both partners consciously and voluntarily agree to have it that way. This is known as a platonic relationship.
2007-02-22 05:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u can continue ur friendship until ur husband has no problem.u can ask him straight about this.a man and a women can be good friends but dont forget no friendship is worth the lovely relationship u and ur husband share,
2007-02-22 04:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i became in a similar difficulty to you. i became in love with a woman who I dated on the time and thought she became right away yet only ensue to fall in love with me. while we've been relationship we'd kiss and hug for hours longs and that i might do sexual stuff to her yet she might on no account do something in return. before everything i became happy with it yet then it grew to become a subject for me, I felt used like shed get it and that i stayed pissed off...and for me its substantial that the guy i like needs me in a sexual way too... properly in an prolonged time evidently she is a lesbian after all it rather is powerful yet now with each and all of the dramas we are broken up I nevertheless have thoughts for her yet I cant forget approximately each and all of the **** she's positioned me with the aid of and Im no longer likely to chase her anymore. intercourse is substantial and its what makes a dating A dating, with out it its alot like an intimate friendship so I mean its as much as you, in case you cant handle out the intercourse area your only going to finally finally end up cheating or breaking apart so theres rather no factor...check together with her approximately it, tell her the type you experience and if she cant stay as much as that, then its superb to the two stay friends (if u think of u could be friends together with her) or flow ur seperate techniques. solid luck
2016-11-24 23:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by rasavong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweety Friendship doesnt mean u have to make physical contact with other person.True one consist of sacrifice,dedication,love etc.So just continue with him!!
2007-02-22 04:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sania 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have guy friends there now like brothers! It's great there very easy to talk to and when there busy I hang out with their gf!
2007-02-22 04:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by **Red** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋