This woman is involved in a 17 year relationship with another woman. However she is not happy and hasn't been for a long time due to bi-polar disorder, drug abuse , etc... She doesn't know how I feel, and I am about to let this women know . Should I?????
We are all friends which makes it very difficult, but I am tired of fighting how I feel....Any answers welcome...Thanks
2007-02-22 03:33:37 · 14 answers · asked by blackie8774 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let her know slowly...and don't become center stage between the two of them.
2007-02-22 03:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she's in an emotionally abuse relationship then you, as a friend, should help her out of it. Also, it sounds like the kind of relationship it would be wrong to break up is gone. If you're interested in her, I say make a move.
2007-02-22 07:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try suggesting it before actually coming all out with it. Give her a smooth transition. Does she have a counsellor to help her out with the issues she's having right now with her partner? It's emotionally difficult on someone to have an unhappy relationship like that. Maybe you should help her to get out of it and re-adjust before you make any moves -- otherwise she may resent you for it.
2007-02-22 03:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by erthe_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guy, at the starting up, imagine tht what u have performed? n what u r going to do? have u lengthy gone mad? as u have said she's already married then imagine the consequances of ur relationship. it type of feels, she would no longer be satiesfied with her husband and searching a clean guy in her life. yet what do u imagine? at the same time as ur kin and her husband come to knw abt it. an huge quarral can ensue bcz u both r neighbourhood so be careful about everythink. do no longer depart any type of info, which could capture u.(e.g. SMS, letter etc.) until eventually then, u may have thrilling with her and depart her very quickly.
2016-12-04 19:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians have enough childhood problems as it most of the time..and to add your neighbors problems on top of that, you're looking at a disaster. Stay away there are plenty of women.
2007-02-22 12:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by leelee_0821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. A 17-year relationship is not lightly cast aside. You can hint to her that you're interested, but it is up to her to tell her long-term lover that it is over.
2007-02-22 03:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by obelix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes bi polar and a drug abuser leave her alone and work on your feelings somewere else, your better off. been there done that.
2007-02-22 04:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell her. Sometimes it's something like that that helps people get out of bad relationships.
2007-02-22 03:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel affection for someone of the same sex. It is perversion to express that affection sexually. The Almighty gave men a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it!
2007-02-22 03:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her. She has a right to be happy
2007-02-22 03:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Spring loaded horsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋