2007-02-22 03:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by jon s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you are young and hormonal. Right is right & wrong is wrong. There are laws against that type of thing. You tell to yourself your thoughts & feelings are just plain sick! Find somebody that is not your relative! Don't we all have relatives that are attractive? That just means we are part of a good gene pool. It definitely doesn't mean that you half to want to get busy with them. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Are you THAT desperate that you want to keep in the FAMILY???? I am sorry but you are bound to get comments as sick as your question. EWWWWWWWW!
2007-02-22 03:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Paula S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young and experiencing romantic interests for the first time it is natural to have interest in someone you are comfortable with and have a good time with. However, it is not a good thing. You need to accept that this is normal and move on to another appropriate interest. Go join some clubs or something where you will meet other people. Ask your cousin to get a couple of people together, you get a couple of people together and you can all go bowling, to a movie, on a picnic and swimming. Have a party at your house, invite lots of people to hang out, listen to music, have some food, play some party games. The more you keep yourself active, the less you will think of your cousin in that way. Talk to your church pastor or school guidance counsellor about it if it will help you or another trusted adult. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-22 11:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not sick. Your cousin may have all the qualities you want in a woman. So, it would be natural to feel that way. You need to go with what makes you and your partner...whoever it may be....happy. Do a search on incest and look at the studies and the experiences of those that are in an incestual relationship. There's a hell of alot more out there than you think. Then make your decision based on what you find.
2007-02-22 11:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we just can't help who we fall for and want to be with. If it's just physical attraction think of something really gross and a start to associate that with her. If it's deeper than that- stay away and try to get help. It's not healthy to get involved with a family member for many reasons: 1.) It would tear the family apart, 2.)You two would more than likely be out-casted by your family and society, 3.) If she was on board and the two of you eventually had a family- the child could suffer major complications and that's just to name a few. If it's her ways and personality that have you buggin' -get a grip- either way open your eyes and make yourself realize that this is emotionally unhealthy and CANNOT happen! Good Luck!
2007-02-22 11:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age but perhaps your cousin has all the traits you like in a woman and you haven't found the right girl yet.
2007-02-22 11:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't help who you like. and if there's love between you two, does it really matter if you're related already?
2007-02-22 12:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by murielli r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on ages maybe just a fetish
2007-02-22 11:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by sugumo292006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said to save them.....but EWWWWW
2007-02-22 11:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand. Go for it.
2007-02-22 11:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i juz gone tel u straight up u r so dumb n nasty u perv
2007-02-22 11:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by lilparis_12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋