I don't hear anything about my x these days, a but old friend mentioned something how her x and mine are getting up to all sorts. Good for him and all that but it makes me feel like I missed out.
We were a long term high school couple - I had a crazy few months of partying as a single girl but fell actually ended up in a relatioinship quite soon after - I'm now married. I knew I was lucky that I fell in love like that and I'm happy - I am so glad I've got my husband.
But..... I have this annoyance that I've missed out on something.
Is the grass just always greener??
2007-02-22 03:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I say I am worried I have missed out on something I mean being single and carefree you know living the single life.
Not my X! No thanks! hehe
2007-02-22 03:47:18 · update #1
yes and if you went to the other side you'd see it was just as green on the side you were on in the first place, we all feel as though we have missed out on some thing and those who have done something about it realise they hadn't missed much at all, I'm glad your happy and settled so don't dwell on things, you've went crazy and partied and now your married to a lovely man what more can someone want
2007-02-22 03:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, trust me I know. I was with my boyfriend for over three years. Things were serious and quite intense between us but despite this (and probably slightly because of this) we broke up. I went off to uni and had a great time. He got up to all sort as well, lads holidays and random weekends away. I dated lots of different people just for fun and went out every night with my girlfriends, but during all this, I felt alone and that there was something missing and of course, I thought about my ex. It turns out he was the same and eventually we got back together. We bought our first house a year ago and we've never looked back. Now I know for sure that I wouldn't want to go back to that life I had. Its was great fun and I love the memories I have but it didn't mean anything. What I have with my boyfriend and what you have with your husband is worth so much more that a few crazy weekends away or the odd night out. Besides, just because you're married doesn't mean you can't have fun anymore!
2007-02-22 03:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember there was a reason why it ended and even more reasons why you have you husband. Don't take the road back as it will never be the same. So what if he's moving on - you have. How do you think he sees your new relationship?
Leave him be - make the best of what you have chosen.
2007-02-22 03:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by JJ88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just focus on your life, and enjoy. Set goals
and be around positive people. It will take you to new
heights, and aspirations. Good luck pudding. No
disrespect....
2007-02-22 03:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's hard to TOTALLY let go of something that is a part of your history. I don't think you still have any strong feelings for him at all.
2007-02-22 03:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Megan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋