if I m single and she's married... I look at it this way - if it was not me, she would probably find someone else and still be cheating. I would not be mad at the guy if my wife cheated on me with him... If its not meant to be, it is not meant to be. What do you think?
2007-02-22 02:51:11 · 27 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it! You don't have a deal with him that you won't sleep with his wife she does.
2007-02-22 02:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by millajovovichsboyfriend 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's not meant to be, she should be divorced. Why would you even want to have an affair with a married woman? It will lead to more drama than you need.
Maybe it wouldn't bother you but a lot of spouses want to kill and destroy their mate's lover. Just because you would handle it one way doesn't mean everyone could deal with it so easily. Think about it before you do it. If you're doing it just to get laid, look at a singles bar.
2007-02-22 10:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting perspective, but personally, I would avoid at all costs. The potential firestorm isn't worth getting laid. There are plenty of single women out there for that. It's also a moral matter; as a Christian, the hipocracy kind of disgusts me - that a person can stand on a church altar and swear to be with someone 'til death'...that is until they get bored.
2007-02-22 11:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong to sleep with a married person. Irregardless of the circumstances. Someone will get hurt, its rarely just a one night stand. The relationship/sex will continue to develop and possibly feelings because the married person is obviously missing something in their relationship. Both parties are hurting not only each other, but others involved. Find someone unattached
2007-02-22 10:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not good,but I know many people that have very long marriages come out of cheating.Could be that's what it takes to get with the Right one.
2007-02-22 11:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn´t.
It is a horrible sin, because you are destroying a family. Don´t try to justify your sin. People who say "she might find someone else" might also say "someone else might kill my neighbor, or rob a bank or rape a woman or whatever, so I´ll go ahead and do it".
Make a good confession and start a new life -the Lord is rich in mercy"!"
2007-02-22 11:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by alfonso p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! either way if 1 is married or the both of you is married it is wrong. however, i'm not judging you because i've been in the same boat more than once. i'm married and unhappy so sometimes i like to play the field. do what you want. no matter what any one say's or how they criticize you, in the long run you will eventually go ahead and do the deed!!!!
2007-02-22 10:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by doinitthamexicanway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay to get involve with a married woman, duh!! get real ok.You can find a better one and single.
My husband had an affair with a married woman 2 months ago and it broke my kids,so don't be a fool man.there's a lot of single woman out there. Use your head for a change....
2007-02-22 11:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must have chemistry with this woman, or her hubby is not putting out at all for her.
It is a sin, but we all have sinned and fallen short and God is a loving and forgiving God.
U need to find a single woman or divorced one.
C'mon---there are 10 women for every man. Wake up and find one that is single.
2007-02-22 11:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is cheating then she is not getting what she need from her marriage and if you want to be the reason that their kids have a broken family and feel like their at fault, then go for it but what happens when it gets old with you she will move on again.
2007-02-22 11:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay away from married women. just b/c you think she'll get it anyway, doesn't mean you have to stoop that low. and i'd be willing to bet that if your wife cheated on you and the guy knew she was married you'd be pretty pissed off. even if YOU weren't, that doesn't mean some other guy wouldn't be ready to kick YOUR ***. it's wrong. plain and simple.
2007-02-22 10:58:25 · answer #11 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋