Is it okay?

Question

I make love last to my wife when her pregnancy was 3 months old, she gave to a set of twincs baby boys and they are six months old my wife has refused me to have sex with her, according to her she wants the babies to be 1year old. What should I do ?

Answer 1

I dont have a clue! Why would you want to do that? My husband and I had sex untill I had my daughter and then 4 weeks after i had her

Answer 2

Wow, that is VERY inconsiterate of her. I just love all these women on here who think that women should have complete control and men should just be delegated to doing what ever women say! Men have feelings and are important too. Did all you women realize that sex is VERY important to men? And not just for the reasons you are thinking. Men see sex as THE way to be close to their mate, it is how they feel the closest to them. Men need physical affection to feel whole and secure in a relationship. Perhaps you women should actually try to understand men before putting them down. Maybe try a little research as well (what I have mentioned has been documented by male and female researchers). Now on to answering this question, There is no physical reason she cannot have sex. Have you tried sitting down and calmly discussing this with her? Perhaps explain to her some of your feelings? Let her know that you are human and have needs too? If that does not work I really think you guys need some sort of counceling together. I'd just like to say I think you are a stand up guy. Alot of men might just have decided to go out and find a "temporary fix" (We are all adult and you know what I mean). I commend you for your patience!

To everyone else: Alright, bring on the thumbs down, I'm ready for em.

To the person directly below me: Huh?

Answer 3

Have your met Rosie Palmer and her 5 sisters?? (hint: your hand)

Take care of yourself and quit being so selfish!

ETA-

To the chick who thinks that women on here are inconsiderate because they don't want sex....

It's our body and we don't have to have sex if we don't want to. It has nothing to do with controlling a man! Give me a break- You sound like a freakin' door mat!! Why can't the man be considerate of the woman's feelings??? Why is the man right?? For whatever reason she doesn't want sex so why should her feelings get over ruled just because the man wants it? Grow up-

Answer 4

I will wait, although that doesn't mean I will stop trying, be careful, this is a delicate issue I will prefer to keep to my self!, there isn't necessarily because I will not like to recognize that she got me, in check, not only because yes!, it will seams she knows better, than my self in this field?, and although her medical conditions, biological and or psychological responses, aren't quit yet functioning at the level and speed necessary or at my speed?, Despite of all of this which can become confusing!, I will respect her decision although I WILL NOT STOP TRYING!!!!!,NOT, better yet, I will not stop! perseverance, My friend this is a good time to become better a better lover, for her too, although I happen to know that woman's can love there self, more than what we can love their self because we have accomplish, something. which we can only see and know how to get more out of it, but when it becomes to our performance, she did perform highly better than any of my own performances and achievements in any other field?. You have a work to do, because for her the babies are as much important than you, So, remember that her achievement although without you wouldn't have happen steal she is her own achiever, give it time, but tell your self, I will never Stop trying, never, though put as much respect in this because she need to love her self to see how much more we have learn, to please again, not only the one, but the new to come, anytime we have learn something., know you need to learn that she needs more concideration because she have just become a creative entity, and you too?, be creative to show her respect, privacy, as well the good intentions to grow even more, togheter with-in the grow of a family now, there is no more just you and me, there are?????, How are the badies doing, I hope great, just enjoy her and learn to enjoy your self, with the new, let the Old behind, and take you time as she will take her's, and their's, and perhaps yours?, but just in your mind "I will not stop trying"/, for my own good....., .... Sex is this time a new, perhaps just for a little more delicate pleasure, in a new search for the true we have found whit-in the new capacities we have together found to be, in the precenses of the new us, and then the Babies. they will be waching?, let us keep our self confidence, that the new spices aren't the babies but the new knowledge we can find after this new beutiful experience together, we have grown not only in size but in responsibility, and with all our potentials intact, into a new fountain of new experiences to come. To more experience more expertice. just think in you and her, and don't try to stop her if she begins to run out way before you have accomplish your own fulfilment, I mean extacis after sex, forget about you if it happen and forget about the physical pleasures whent you get to that point, (if you are lucky enoufg again to get there)........lol..., she is more important for her self than that, and for you too, mentaly and Spiritually now, and believed or not, take her decition if she which to get pregnat soon again I dout it, so help her to aboid it, so soon. this is the base of your new reality, OXOXOXOXO, only that for a while, OXOXOXOXO. this for the twins. good luck and God bless you, and her and the babies. That is what count. She will take your most consideret though, not dout, and she will make it happen again!!!!!!!!!!.

Answer 5

tell her you cant wait that long she is probably scared to have sex.
Tell her that when the babies are asleep that is your time to do what you need.
Try getting a babysitter and having a romantic evening.
good luck

Answer 6

Wait six more months!!!!