Rape is one of those things that leaves victims scarred long after the actual event. They begin to second guess themselves...Did they encourage it, did they somehow ask for it? Did they actually enjoy it? Was it rape or actually a date? Why couldn't they have seen what was coming and so on?
There is no cure, only acceptance and understanding that you were a victim... after what can be a long long time. I once had a patient who was so guilty because she remembered her own orgasm's, while her father raped her as a child at 11-17. She thought she wanted it!!!
Not true of course! What causes men to rape? It is a multifaceted answer, but essentially it starts with resentment toward women, and ends up being a control thing. Showing they are superior, that they can make their victim do anything they want..and so on. It gives the rapist, a sense of power, but the cost to both sides, is enormous on an emotional level.
Men who are repeatedly raped in prison, often are never able to accept their masculinity again, and often commit suicide, or other acts of self mutilation.
Get counselling fast, it won't solve the problem overnight, but it is the only viable solution.
2007-02-25 05:13:24
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answered by Boston Bluefish 6
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your question is disgusting! First of all you don't look like being raped. It's an awful disgusting feeling that no-one would ever imagine unless they've been raped by ignorant individuals as yourself. You are in desperate need of medical help!
2007-02-22 02:30:58
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answered by Anonymous
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either this is a joke or a warning, and i hope its #1 b/c im a federal martial and i suggest you take this posting down ASAP.
dont mess around.
2007-02-22 02:43:23
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answered by Anonymous
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What a horrible question to ask. Get some help!
2007-02-22 02:23:18
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answered by Anonymous
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well u cant really visulaize the 'feel' of being raped. Doesn't make any sense.
2007-02-22 02:23:23
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answered by raven22229 2
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you'll feel used and taken advantage of..........is sometimes like cheating on someone but worst.
2007-02-22 02:26:31
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answered by Fortune M 2
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I dont think you should want to know.
2007-02-22 02:23:29
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answered by Mayonaise 6
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trust me it feelz good! i was raped at 9
2007-02-22 02:22:57
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answered by xX♥ANGELINA♥Xx 2
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huh?
2007-02-22 02:22:38
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answered by Anonymous
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SICK
2007-02-22 02:23:34
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answered by T.SUGGS 2
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